Sorry to disillusion you, but having respect is not at all the same as maintaining a lap dog who will fetch things for you at the snap of your fingers. To truly earn another's respect, you must be a strong, dignified person yourself. You must have profound confidence in the content and quality of your character, and so you have no need to seek validation of a fragile ego by testing the limits of another's compliance. And you must treat the *other* person with respect. Where is the respect for this girl?

You've probably read some PUA materials that discuss compliance tests as a way to see if a girl is interested and a way to get her to invest in you. And that's all fine for the initial phases of meeting a girl and beginning to build a rapport. It seems, though, that you've misapplied the concept -- that you're under the false impression you need to keep testing her willingness to supplicate. But when you're in a relationship -- a mature relationship, at least -- you don't measure success according to how quickly your girl will sprint to and from the fridge to nab you a beer.

So my advice to you would be to stop worrying about how to get this girl to fall back in line, and start thinking instead of not only why it is that you feel the need to run her around but also how you can develop your own inner strength.

Good luck.

Peace,
Ciornia

Thanks good advice... She recently lost her job so she's been acting a little irratated you know? Im wondering what role should i take through this situation.