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Author:  amit482001 [ Fri Jun 18, 2010 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Why does she meet up with me, but doesn't let me touch

Hi Guys,

I have been hanging out with this perfect 10 for a couple of weeks now. We probably get together atleast thrice a week, and go for drinks and chill. But she just doesn't let me touch her. When i tried to kiss her after we went out the first time, she turned away and later sent me a text " what happened to going with the flow".
Last week I told her that I would like to date her, but she said that she just wants to hangout and isn't looking for anythign more at the moment, which is pretty cool.
The thing that annoys me is she keeps on saying things like, " Give me an hour to hour update of wat you did yesterday, Or who were you with last night, with that 'HO' of yours. Two days ago she crossed the bar when she made me walk her home and told me, " baby we are goin home and then we will fuck all night". But despite all these talks she just doesn't let me touch her or anything.
And I think she probably likes some other guy or is just coming out of a break-up.
I am not sure how to deal with her.

Author:  quickdrawyall [ Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:25 am ]
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Tell her straight up. "Look, you can't pull me around by my ear like this. You can either follow through with how you're acting and put on your big girl pants, or I'm done with you." She wants to own you, but give you nothing. Don't let her do either.

Author:  AFC Royal [ Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:08 am ]
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Yeah, what he said.

Either that, or you're making the kino too obvious.

I would probably just freeze-out, but direct communication could work here as well.

Author:  amit482001 [ Sat Jun 19, 2010 11:35 pm ]
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Would you guys know, why would she meet up with me like 3-4 times a week and still say that we are just hanging out and not dating? That's kinda strange. I know its a shit test, but at times you can't really understand if it really is or not?

Author:  AFC Royal [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:41 am ]
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Who cares if you're dating or not? Just bang her for god's sake. In fact, it makes it easier that you guys aren't dating.

Author:  Tripdogg5 [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 6:19 pm ]
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Last week I told her that I would like to date her, but she said that she just wants to hangout and isn't looking for anythign more at the moment, which is pretty cool.

No, it's not cool, not cool at all bro. That means leave her and move on, she's insulting you by wasting your time. They fact that she'll tease you and not let you touch her is a HUGE red flag, I'm surprised that didn't turn you off immediately. Why are you wasting your money and your night, just to look at how pretty she is? I've been friends with a girl like that, they just get off on how much power they have over you and that's it. She doesn't respect you, she's not attracted to you sexually, so what are you talking to her for? Forget about her, she's a spent mission, plain and simple. Plus she sounds really controlling, you wouldn't want to be with her anyway man.

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