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Author:  Flynn [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 2:34 am ]
Post subject:  Is this an IOI?

This girl I'm cool with starts conversations with me all the time. I love talkin to her and shes LTR material. What do you think? Big IOI, kinda, not at all? let me know

Author:  Onoma [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 3:14 am ]
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Whether it is or not, and it's kind of iffy, a single IoI doesn't tell you much. Does she do anything else that might be an IoI? There's a list around here somewhere you can search for, review it and see if she does any of those things other than just talking to you.

Also, are you gaming her at all? Kino? Flirting even? She may like talking to you, but if you're not escalating she probably thinks of you as a friend...

Author:  AFC Royal [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 3:37 am ]
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Starting conversations with you all the time means very little.

For all we know, you could be super-hardcore-friend-zoned. A little more information, please.

Author:  Flynn [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 3:43 am ]
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Well I wasn't in the game before I started tryna get with her so I haven't really been able to escalate kino or anything else. Once I start talking to her and gaming her I will work game hard though because I feel pretty confident that she likes me but not 100% about it yet. I think I'll go running and run by her house a couple times since she's in my neighbor kind of and accidentally run into hopefully haha and if not then at least I went running :D

Author:  Fender43 [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:56 am ]
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ioi-vs-iod-female-body-language-vt8476.html[url]
heres that list of IOIs and IODs boys

Author:  Visionxxxxxx [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 3:11 pm ]
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Next time you speak to her, casually bring up and have a conversation about another girl that you're 'kinda into', gauge her reaction. If she changes topic quickly or there are silences from her side, chances are she's probably into you, if she rambles on trying to give you advice about this girl, you're fucked.

Another thing, turn the convo sexual and see if she go's with it.

Author:  Flynn [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:41 pm ]
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Royal.. Nah I'm friends with her but definitely not in the friend zone. I don't talk to her enough to be there I don't think.

Vision.. That's a really good idea. I just thought of this myself but I'm gona tell this girl I'm just friends with (Jen) how I like the HB and I'll tell the HB I like Jen to see her reaction then I'll tell the HB to ask Jen what she thinks of me and Jen can say she's not into me then have her ask the HB if she's into me. Sound good?

Author:  Visionxxxxxx [ Fri Jun 18, 2010 6:46 am ]
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Royal.. Nah I'm friends with her but definitely not in the friend zone. I don't talk to her enough to be there I don't think.

Vision.. That's a really good idea. I just thought of this myself but I'm gona tell this girl I'm just friends with (Jen) how I like the HB and I'll tell the HB I like Jen to see her reaction then I'll tell the HB to ask Jen what she thinks of me and Jen can say she's not into me then have her ask the HB if she's into me. Sound good?
Man, aside from this being way too complicated you really dont need to send a messenger to find out if shes into, Im assuming youre still in school ? (I dont mean to sound like a dick here, its just that I remember doing that at the age of about 14yrs old). Another thing to consider, when the HB asks Jen if she likes you or not, when Jen says NO this will lower your value big time.

Author:  Flynn [ Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:55 pm ]
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Rethinking the process I'll just do this shit solo. I don't think it would be a DLV if she says we're just friends though but I know what you mean

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