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| Author: | AFcAndrew [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 12:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | I understand what i have to do but how to put it in motion? |
I have been studying game and all sorts of self improvement techniques for a while now. I understand a lot about game now i just need the steps laid out for me. Although im not a beginner i would like to start from scratch on applying these things. Please do not send me peoples programs i have enough theory in my head all i need now is developing the confidence needed to apply the theory. A step by step miny guide would be very appreciated as to how a high school student can apply game daily to practice. Also please keep in mind i dont have a very good reputation especially with girls but i understand this can all be changed im just a little confused as to how i go about doing it from my position. Any ideas? steps? If i was 18 i could easily apply all this in a bar or outside with strangers but as a 16 year old i really dont have too many options but im willing to use what i have, the problem is im confused as to what i could do in my position. |
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| Author: | Flynn [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 12:36 am ] |
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get a solid opener that works with what ever the fuck your doing at the time and then if you actually know the rest of the game well enough you'll easily transition through each phase. Openers are like the most important (in my opinion) because if the opener sucks then the conversation will but if the opener goes great then the conversation will as well. |
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| Author: | ItsAlwaysOn [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 3:29 am ] |
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you don't need to learn 'game' at age 16. Just go to high school, build a social circle, be a cool guy, and the rest will take care of itself. If you feel you have a bit of a dork vibe from the girls and you really, really can't work past that, you'll have a chance to put that all behind you and start over from scratch when you get to college and nobody knows you. I know you don't want to hear theory, but check out some of the free material from the 21C speakers in the video section of this site. Great social circle/college game stuff there that you could definitely apply to your life right now. |
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| Author: | Darkst0rm [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 3:47 am ] |
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There is no step-by-step approach that works 100% of the time. Hell, there isn't a step-by-step approach that works 25% of the time! Human beings are too complex, not to mention we're all different. So it's futile to even consider this. At 16, you shouldn't be worrying about this anyway. Work on building a close group of friends, polish up your conversational skills toward strangers, and build up your abilities to move from one social circle to another at your school as ItsAlwaysOn suggested. The latter is THE most valuable skill you can have in high-school/college, as being the go-to guy who can be Alpha in any social group can give you a lot of social currency to use toward your reputation. If you want crib-notes, go find material by Juggler....he's got some great conversation openers that you can use as a starting point until you build up your confidence. And yeah, check out the vids on social circles and college/high-school game. |
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