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| Author: | Ciornia [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 11:44 am ] |
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Long story short: I met a girl during day game, established a good connection, successfully built sexual-tension loops, broke rapport and she quickly reinitiated, naturally worked in some kino -- so, all signs were very strong. Then I proposed a date and she said yes, but she wouldn't give me her #, only her email address, saying it's her policy. I held my frame well, but I'm wondering if you have suggestions of good responses if a girl wants to give you only her email. Peace, Ciornia |
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| Author: | #1 Jish [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 1:34 pm ] |
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Email has advantages, you can sit there and construct a perfect message DHVing yourself and whatever other thousand acronyms you use to make yourself look good. Personally about the email....I think its a bit wierd but I know girls that do that to filter out the 'freaks', its better them emailing her opposed to calling and texting every 5 minutes right? as soon as she realises your not 'one of them' I can only assume you will get the # close good luck |
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| Author: | Ciornia [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 2:13 pm ] |
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Thanks, Jish. I think you're right; email definitely has its pluses, and I'm good at crafting a solid message. So I'm not concerned. Any thoughts, though, on how to reply in the moment when she says she's giving you just her e-m address? (I smirked, gave her a sidelong glance, and said, "No -- don't tell me the phone company cut you off because you didn't pay your bill!") |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 6:10 pm ] |
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The key is to answer the metalanguage/her frame/the underlying meaning of the interaction. So it might have been a shit test, but by the sounds of what you say, she was probably being genuine. I would just have happily accepted it and complimented her on such a policy in a manner that would also prompt her to give you more info about why she uses it. Sounds to me from your response that you were a bit defensive - not that it looks like that'll make much of a difference to your pickup  . x |
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| Author: | Ciornia [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 9:18 pm ] |
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You're right, Rafiel, that my interior monologue was definitely saying, "Huh?!"  But I hope my voice tonality and body language appeared unfazed. In any case, your point about happy acceptance as a way to gain greater insight into her is also right on target. Thanks, man.x, Ciornia |
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