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Author:  tomacco [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 1:42 am ]
Post subject:  Girl just got out of relationship, and wants to slow
Hey PUA,

I'm new to the PU community, and I'm need some advice. There's this girl I met online, and we went on two dates.

This is what you said to me on msn after our two dates.
[b]
"This is unrelated but I feel like I should be honest with you. I like hanging out with you and going on dates but I won't be taking anything quickly. I just got out of a 3 year relationship so I'm taking it pretty slowly. I wasn't going to mention anything but I want us to be on the same page. I think maybe you're looking for something serious."[/b]

I then said this to her:

[b]thanks for being honest with me
I'm looking to date, and if it develops into a relationship great
but, if it doesn't, being friends is cool too[/b]

and, she replied with

[b]"Sorry it came up randomly, I just realized that I might have went on the site a little sooner than maybe I should have so I"m just getting used to it. Dating, it is all so new! lol You seem fairly comfortable with it though."[/b]

How do you think I should approach this?
Author:  JJaySBK [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 2:02 am ]
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I'm a newbie, so I wouldn't listen to my own advice really.

I would just continue with the same-ol routine. If anything, if you meet each other, just keep mentioning that your friendship is going to be so awesome. While saying this, give her mixed messages by kino escalating and being at the boundary of not-friends.

Don't literally turn into a vagina and be her girl-friend.
Author:  tomacco [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 2:15 am ]
Post subject: 
Thanks for the reply Jay. I believe the most important thing right now is organize another meeting. And, then I can try more kino escalation with her. Yeah, definitely don't want to be one of her girlfriends.

Feel free to reply if you have experience or strategies with this scenario?
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