| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Seducing a girl who has a fiance.... https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=69200 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | samburns [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 8:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Seducing a girl who has a fiance.... |
Hi guys, I know this is probably a real sh*t thread to start but I will fill you in on the situation. I work in a large office building and there is a girl who I think is 9/10 maybe even a 10... She is 21 and I am 24... She is engaged to her boyfriend and from the photo I have seen on her desk, i personally think that he isnt much to look at, so he might have a great personality which attracts her. At first we didnt chat very much as we work on different teams. But i caught her eye a few times and she smiles at me an awful lot as she passes by my desk. The office printer is right by my desk also and she always makes an effort to smile and say hello now. I have heard her talking to her work colleagues a few times about arguments that her and her fiance have had etc, so it seems to me that she is happy to neg him to people, so maybe there is something wrong or underlying that isny forfilling her needs. We ended up chatting a few days back in the kitchen, just friendly chit chat and nothing sinister but we laughed and joked none stop for around ten minutes. I was asking her about her wedding plans... Now as a man, I was under the impression that when a woman gets married, it is her life long dream to plan the wedding down to every fine detail. This girl is planning to get married in 3 months time and she has not even booked the honey moon or very much of the wedding details. I know this because she admitted it to me when we spoke. She told me that she has been with her fiance for around 3.5 years, they moved in together a year ago.....and to quote her words.... "we just thought we should get married as we moved in together"... Now stop me if im wrong, but surely when a couple get married, if its definately a good thing to them, they do it out of love for each other and not because "we thought we should"... This girl is the kind of girl that not many men would approach as she is really pretty and physically beautiful to the eye. you know one of those girls that would look beautiful as soon as they wake up with bed hed hair lol... so I see her as a challenge.. I know it may sound really really snakish of me to think this way but He Who Dares as they say.... My question to the forum is... How do I approach this? I know that I need to make her feel special and attractive in a subtle way, but without coming across as I want to sex her up....I completely understand that work and pleasure are a dangerous mix, but this girl is a HB9/10 and I hate my job anyway... Can anybody advise of what approach i should take with this and how i can start to wing my way into to her thoughts? Thanks guys...sorry if im a snake but you cant help who you are attracted to can you.. Sam |
|
| Author: | AFC Royal [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 2:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
First off, there's the obligatory remark: don't go after girls who aren't single, it's a bad idea. If you still really want to, here's one idea: go ahead and flirt some, but the key here is just to be non-threatening. Just offer her a sense of fun and enjoyment, you can turn it sexual later on. The point of all this is that she doesn't feel like she's being taken advantage of, because you aren't mentioning her boyfriend at all or coming on to her. As for the possibility of LJBF, I would essentially back off and not show too much interest. Your sense of fun is the seed that grows when you're away. Anyway, I still think that this is a bad idea. Just saying. |
|
| Author: | Vortex525 [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 3:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
What the fuck are you playing at? Don't be a twat and fuck something like that up!! How would you like it? Mate you don't piss about like that it's not cool!! |
|
| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 4:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Ye, i agree please walk away, otherwise you are a cunt. not a pua. its different if she was with some guy whos a prick, but they have been together for 3.5 years. if you were the other guy how would you feel? |
|
| Author: | cataclysm [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 4:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Try not to hit on girls in LTR (marriage/ engaged). "Boyfriend" really depends since I know chicks who have changed 9 bfs in a year. It is not only about moral issue but also about yourself. You are going to shape your game, not going after any particular girl, why bother going through the shit? There plenty of available 10s in the dating market. Tell yourself that being a 10 makes her no big deal. But if you still want to try go ahead and try all your best. She is deeply connected to one man. Her shield is high. She is not in clubs to be hit on and she will feel guilty when she is attracted to others. Routines and lines are not enough. You need a full strategy to work out a F close and destroy her bf. You need more than one meet up with her. I suggest this if this is convenient for you. Find out her cause of conflict from other colleagues if you dare to gossip, esp on what her bf did X that annoys her. Approach her casually for a chit chat. Tell her that you have a female friend running into this problem, her married husband, for 10 years, have been doing X (same thing the HB's bf did) and she has been giving in to him until no more. your friend's husband resort to violence and your friend felt terrible.She kept on telling you that she made the wrong choice to marry him. You are not married so you want to seek an opinion from her so as to help your friend. The trick here is to instill fear to dampen her excitement for marriage as most girls are paranoid and believe in 6th sense sort of superstition. Build a connection if she starts telling you about her relationship. Make her feel like you are a good friend who is going to be ready to listen to her troubles. No kino. Initiate an end of the conversation. Formulate an excuse to get her crash at your house the next day. I don't know how but you have to if you want to succeed. Say you want to buy some vegetables from supermarket but you don't how to chose. Bring her or drive her there to the supermarket. Drive back home and say you really want to thank her for helping you and you want her to have a sip of coffee before you send her back home. If you have no car, buy enough heavy things to warren you an excuse to ask her to help to carry the stuffs. Back at home, make sure all your equipments are ready beforehand. Press the button on you PC to trigger a very romantic music. Condom got to be prepared in the drawer. Lights dimmed. Candles preferred. Makes the environment triggers her memory of her sexual experience with her bf in such a classic setting. Start with comfort building but you need to reach kino and Sexual escalation before she finish her coffee in case she left due to feeling of guilt towards her bf. Starting from comfort, tell a story about a cute object prepared in your room. Tell her that it was the gift from your high school ex. She was a dancer (dhv) You two thought that nothing could separate you two and you two will definitely get married. (A deep connection with her love and readiness to settle down with her bf.) But she died of leukemia( classical soap drama tragedy). When the comfort is enough, transit to kino, telling her that the way she drinks the coffee looks exactly like your ex......The rest will be up to your skills in kino, sexual escalation and without doubt handling lmr. I don't know the exact situation and might be just talking BS since I never tried on someone in LTR. Preparation and planning should be the key. Hope it brings some fresh ideas to you. |
|
| Author: | ItsAlwaysOn [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 5:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
everybody telling samburns to stay away from her and calling him names because she's engaged needs to relax. First of all, her relationship is her issue, not sam's. Second, if he sleeps with her one of two things will probably happen. Either she'll realize how much she loves her fiance, go back to him, and it'll improve their relationship. Or it'll cause her to realize she's not in love with the fiance anymore and break them up and prevent her from making a huge mistake that she might regret for the rest of her life. Either way, it'll probably benefit her in the long run. Having said all that, though, I personally wouldn't want to get involved with a girl who's engaged and been in a relationship for 3.5 years. But I dont think we should vilify sam for doing it if he wants to. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|