Bit of background: I'm 25 years old, have only ever been in one serious relationship, and have only ever slept with two women. I was recently seeing someone, it wasn't at all serious and never went that far, I was considering calling it off but she got in first, which resulted in me moping about like an idiot wondering where I went wrong, and now wanting to do something about it before it's too late!
I just have zero confidence, and to be honest for how long it's been, practically zero experience either. Arguably two of the most important things, and I have neither.
One problem I have is simply where to meet girls? The places I go to, mostly either cinema or gigs, aren't idea lto get chatting to girls, and I'm not a massive fan of clubs or bars.
Another is I fall into the 'nice guy' category. It's probably a mixture of being overly cautious and not wanting to take risks, being a bit boring (unfortunately) and of course actually being nice in general too. This in particular I need to work on; being more interesting, more fun, being more like I am around my mates, but where do I even start?
One thing I've noticed is if I drink most of the above goes out of the window, I completely open up and my confidence goes through the roof. This isn't ideal though, so I'm wondering how to take the good parts of myself when drunk, and apply them to my every day life?
On a final note I have to say I'm far more interested in finding someone nice, with the potential of it going somewhere, than I am just casual flings, although sadly I also have to say I'd probably take whatever I could right now, so either way is good
Apologies for the super long post, but I'd be real grateful of any advice or tips you guys (or gals!) could give. Thanks!
