Hi Guys,
I have no idea how to handle it from here.Not sure where to post this, it is a field report, with the problem i have below.
I have met this HB trough the internet a week ago , she was the one that initiated the first contact by sending me a IM message.But i was about to logoff, so i kept the convo short and ended it after a brief fluff talk of 5 min.I looked at her profile and she seemed cute , 25 y/o , career, goals , selective.She adds me to her favorites ,and let's me know this.
My profile pretty much says that i do what i want, and i don't like drama.And that goodlooking girls do not mean i will be kissing their ass, and buying them drinks.Pretty much i am a likeable A-hole
The next day i log on again , and i notice she is online.She immidiatley sends me a IM text again.We talk for about an hour , and i setup a meet for Friday ( it was Monday then ).Trough out the week we text back and forth.She seems funny and spontanious , she's asking me all these questions about what work i do , what my hobby's are.I kept giving her silly answers, like i was a Hitman for the mob, or working undercover.She laughed about this.I was in no way going to tell her all about me without her meeting me first.
All this time i was definatley prizing myself, and letting her qualify herself to me.
So i meet her Friday , came 10 min late lol ( ran up an old friend of mine ).It seemed she called her girlfriend to let her know that she was about to leave, but her GF told her she should wait a couple more min ( I already like her GF
)I walk to her ( while she was on the phone with her GF ) , i take the opportunity to check her out.She wears tight jeans, has a nice ass , her hair looks rather silly on side long and the other side short but i like it.I do notice she has a slight bridge between her front upper teeth.But not big enough for it to be a problem.Myself not perfect also, i have allot of acne scars on my cheek.
Anyway she hangs up , i kiss her 3 times.She smells nice.We walk to the 1st vendor.We sit on a big couch, but she puts her big ass bag right in between us.I was like "Shit, how can i get this bag away from here , difficult to kino).After a copple min i tell her i should show her this great JiuJitsu move ( i do MMA ) , she responds positive.So i tell to her move the bag
, and i show her the move.Succes!I kino her heavly the coming 45 min, we drink 2 drinks and i tell her we should change venue, i feel like dancing.
The next venue is one of my favo clubs.We sit in the back in a lounge corner.We order another round of drinks, at this point i start feeling a little bit tipsy.I notice she starts to relax aswell , while she was talking, i just kept looking at her green eyes , switching between the left and right.And i break her story by saying "come here" .I pull her to me, and we start making out.She is a good kisser .After a while i grab her hand and we start dancing.
All this time i am still the prize , and keep her qualifiying to me.I push pull , and reward her good behavior.
After a couple of make-outs she tells me she has to go home it was about 2;00 am she has to work the next day.I take her to the station because she lives in another city, and kiss her goodbye.She tells me she will be in my city the next day with her GF.I tell her i am going with friends, and i probably will run into her.
Next day she texts me, telling she had a great time , we text back and forth trough out the day.That same evening ( Saturday ) .I go out with my buddies.About 2:00 am i text her that she has to come to this club i am in, because the place is rocking, she text me back that she is in another club with her GF.
Damn , oh well.I keep gaming other girls, but not with succes.I end up going to the place she was in, alone.
And here i made a mistake i think, because here i was start to prize her a bit.Being the chaser rather them being chased.I guess i let my hornyness lead, i could think but one thing, and that was fuck the shit out of this girl.
I show up , see her friend.We talk a bit , i kiss her goodbye after a few min, and leave.
About 4:00 i go home , she texts me that she wanted to continue partying, but all the clubs wher closed.
The convo went something like this:
Her: This sux, all the clubs are closed!
Me:Welll i'm having this great party at my place, you should come
( i was not having a party )She then calls me up:
Her:So you have a party there huh?But i don't hear any music?
Me:Yeah that's true, i walked to another room..but why are you asking?
Her:Why can't i ask?
Me:Well, you just can't ask ( with a laughing tone , playfully)
Her:Ok , then i will hang up then
*Click*
WTF?!
I waited a couple min, she thinks i will call her back.But the hell i won't.She sends me a text 5 min later:
Her: Have fun , goodnight
Now i have not responded to this , nor do i know how to.I was hoping for some advice from the Pro's on how to deal with this situation.
This is probaly a way for her to make me chase her , or something.I don't know
Thanks for reading