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| Author: | klausmasterk [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 8:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Hypothetical: sleeping with an ex's friend |
Would you sleep with an ex-girlfriend's friend if you had the opportunity to do so? If you need more variables in this question then I'll throw them in. |
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| Author: | Jav [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 9:18 am ] |
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What a stupid question. Seriously, hypothetically? Fuck that shit, make it real. If you keep thinking about "hypothetical" situations (aka making bullshit assumptions) you will keep sucking and be an ass that assumes things will happen that won't ever occur and thus shooting himself in the foot. I wish people would think better before asking questions, because yes, contrary what they told you at school, there are dumb questions. |
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| Author: | klausmasterk [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 9:43 am ] |
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Okay, my bad, hypothetical was the wrong word to put in there. But the question still stands. I can easily make it happen. Is it a good idea? |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 9:54 am ] |
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Quote: Okay, my bad, hypothetical was the wrong word to put in there.
Look at it two ways, did this ex fuck you over? Did it end on bad terms? Are you on bad terms? Is her friend a nice girl? More importantly, is it worth it?But the question still stands. I can easily make it happen. Is it a good idea? If the first 3 questions answers are yes, fuck her friend if her friend is a dope, if not, don't bother, loads of girls out there. |
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| Author: | Jav [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 10:40 am ] |
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Quote: Okay, my bad, hypothetical was the wrong word to put in there.
WHY can't you just state your reasons for asking such a question. Are you trying to save face for a bunch of strangers?But the question still stands. I can easily make it happen. Is it a good idea? anyways, I'll be constructive now. I've fooled around with an ex of one of my best buddies, and looking back on it all it was pretty silly and childish, the dude wasn't over her and etc. He'd threaten anyone that touched her, so I've never told him. |
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| Author: | klausmasterk [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 11:21 am ] |
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Good point, I was being pretty vague. Just seeing if anyone else had been there before. Not trying to save face in any way. Right, I went out with my ex for 9 months. The last 2 months she was becoming increasingly distant and involved with a drug addict (and taking drugs herself). When we would go to parties she really wanted me to experience some new drugs with her. I was reluctant because it's not really congruent with who I am now, I've been there and done that before. So I went along, took some drugs, then she's chat to this guy all night. Even though (as per usual) I was the life and soul. This happened quite a lot after the first time. So in the end after telling her about it and nothing changing I walked. But she didn't seem to give a toss, plus her friends have noticed a change in her and don't really like her anymore (but still want to be my friend natch). Now it seems that she's going out with this guy, who's 17, a proper loser, but is infatuated with her (my ex has a history of making guys her 'bitch') and she's 21. Now, her friend. She likes me, it's clear to see so gaming would be easy. My ex has pissed her off recently by being a general bitch so her friend is looking to get back at my ex and so am I for making me feel like a fool. Yes, it would be a revenge lay for both of us. But is this a) childish b) a good idea in general. I've got to the point where I don't really care anymore but this opportunity has presented itself. However there is another variable, my ex's friend is good friends with my drummer so I wouldn't want to break up their friendship. |
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| Author: | AFC Royal [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 1:14 pm ] |
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I honestly don't get what this thread is about. Why are you asking a community of pickup artists issues these kinds of questions? Admittedly more of us have experience with this kind of thing, but, let's be honest here: you couldn't possibly write a post long enough to give us an accurate picture of the situation. Now, would you ask someone to describe the plot of "Iron Man" if they'd only seen the first 5 minutes? I think not. Point is, do what you want. You'll figure out if it was stupid later. |
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