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Author:  Vortex525 [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 2:18 pm ]
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I was thinking can a PUA really get any girl he wants? I'm guess they have to think he is hot etc to go for him. So this then makes me ask someone who is not gifted with stunning looks howcan they get the girl? Is it this whole building up attraction first? I guess even good PUA can't make woman look and drool with only there looks or can they?
Author:  Turbo [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 2:40 pm ]
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The answer is no, a pua can not get ANY girl he wants. But he does have a high chance at getting fabulous girls. He's also educated on how to get them. Paris Hilton has even been picked up by a pua.

As for looks, girls don't care about that quite as much. Haven't you ever seen a hb10 with a loser ugly douchebag bf? I know I have.
Author:  Lovely [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 3:35 pm ]
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Actually the answer is yes.
But only if you are truly 100% confident in yourself.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 4:27 pm ]
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Paris Hilton has even been picked up by a pua.
Gambler and....TD?

hell, she's on the back cover of Gambler's Book.
Author:  Chelios [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 4:51 pm ]
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To be honest, Paris Hilton has a rep anyway, I reckon some people here with tight game could do her, but being a PUA, advances your chances with women, it's like part of a new lifestyle.

Nobody can get anyone they want (I don't think) Just chances are increased a lot if your into Pickup and know your stuff.
Author:  Vortex525 [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 6:57 pm ]
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So some say yes and some say no. Myself I can't see that even the best can get who ever they want.
Author:  BrianTampa [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:37 pm ]
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part of the basic belief system of PUA and Inner Game is that you should never fixate on just one target woman. That makes her the prize, which means you probably won't get her if she is in high demand.

So, can PUA get any one particular woman ? The answer is no, at least not directly. The one way it could happen is you could be such a successfull player in a particular woman's social circle, that she is driven by jealousy to have you.
Author:  ZeroValley [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 8:43 pm ]
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Thing with PUA's is, that they approach and attract so many girls, that they will get a very high number of girls, and, not to be a dick, but if you don't know a girl that well, there's probably a dozen girls out there that are just like her.

-Zero
Author:  Chelios [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 8:51 pm ]
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Thing with PUA's is, that they approach and attract so many girls, that they will get a very high number of girls, and, not to be a dick, but if you don't know a girl that well, there's probably a dozen girls out there that are just like her.

-Zero
Agreed!
Author:  Vortex525 [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:35 pm ]
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Ok makes sence.
Author:  theused [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 12:43 am ]
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sense*
Author:  AFC Royal [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 3:06 am ]
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Actually the answer is yes.
But only if you are truly 100% confident in yourself.
If you are truly confident in yourself, you will go very far, but there is always that one girl out there who you can't get.

It may be because you're black and she's the biggest racist in the world. Maybe she's a fanatic religious person who wants to be a nun.

True, you won't meet many of those girls at clubs, but a pickup artist cannot get ANYONE.
Author:  Lips_and_Hips [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 5:47 am ]
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I was thinking can a PUA really get any girl he wants? I'm guess they have to think he is hot etc to go for him. So this then makes me ask someone who is not gifted with stunning looks howcan they get the girl? Is it this whole building up attraction first? I guess even good PUA can't make woman look and drool with only there looks or can they?
When I first met my boyfriend, I didn't even look at him in a sexual way. I was still having issues with my ex boyfriend but then I met one guy who I thought was unbelievable looking (he ended up being a massive douche bag when we got together - no game at all. BIGGEST AFC turned me right off!!!) \

But anyways. Back to my now boyfriend - let's call him S (for sexy =) - he knew I was seeing D (douche bag) but he also knew that D was not the right one for me and didn't challenge me mentally. Therefore S knew he had to use his superior game to win me over. He started cold reading me, doing PUA psychology tests on me, escalating kino when talking, he would LISTEN to me when I spoke about things, he would mentally challenge me and disagree with me - (D (and most other guys I had ever met) never disagreed with me out of fear I would leave them) and slowly, we grew very close resulting in multiple hour long conversations on the phone.

One evening, we were both stuck in the city due to road closures and he suggested we get some dinner while we wait for the road to re-open. I agreed and was excited by this. He made me laugh and laugh the whole night and we didn't end up leaving each other until about 4am (the road closures had finished about 8pm!) As I was about to drive off, I was expecting him to k-close me. He didn't. I left wondeirng what was wrong with me - why he hadn't kissed me. We went out a few more times and he always left me hanging and wanting more. When he FINALLY kissed me, I never wanted him to stop and we have now been together 2 years.

Therefore, yes, I do think that a PUA can get any girl he wants if he has the right game to get her. S knew he wanted me from the moment he met me and he bid his time and got me in the end and I am not going anywhere. I absolutely love him to bits and he is the most attractive person to me in the world.

I hope this helps you a little bit.
Author:  Chelios [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 9:27 am ]
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I was thinking can a PUA really get any girl he wants? I'm guess they have to think he is hot etc to go for him. So this then makes me ask someone who is not gifted with stunning looks howcan they get the girl? Is it this whole building up attraction first? I guess even good PUA can't make woman look and drool with only there looks or can they?
When I first met my boyfriend, I didn't even look at him in a sexual way. I was still having issues with my ex boyfriend but then I met one guy who I thought was unbelievable looking (he ended up being a massive douche bag when we got together - no game at all. BIGGEST AFC turned me right off!!!) \

But anyways. Back to my now boyfriend - let's call him S (for sexy =) - he knew I was seeing D (douche bag) but he also knew that D was not the right one for me and didn't challenge me mentally. Therefore S knew he had to use his superior game to win me over. He started cold reading me, doing PUA psychology tests on me, escalating kino when talking, he would LISTEN to me when I spoke about things, he would mentally challenge me and disagree with me - (D (and most other guys I had ever met) never disagreed with me out of fear I would leave them) and slowly, we grew very close resulting in multiple hour long conversations on the phone.

One evening, we were both stuck in the city due to road closures and he suggested we get some dinner while we wait for the road to re-open. I agreed and was excited by this. He made me laugh and laugh the whole night and we didn't end up leaving each other until about 4am (the road closures had finished about 8pm!) As I was about to drive off, I was expecting him to k-close me. He didn't. I left wondeirng what was wrong with me - why he hadn't kissed me. We went out a few more times and he always left me hanging and wanting more. When he FINALLY kissed me, I never wanted him to stop and we have now been together 2 years.

Therefore, yes, I do think that a PUA can get any girl he wants if he has the right game to get her. S knew he wanted me from the moment he met me and he bid his time and got me in the end and I am not going anywhere. I absolutely love him to bits and he is the most attractive person to me in the world.

I hope this helps you a little bit.
I like this post.

One thing I picked up on is your BF not kissing you at the time. Too many wannabe PUA's in my opinion feel they have to K close. To me, having fun on a date, and not kissing the girl can lead to her wanting more, because she will start "thinking".
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 9:44 am ]
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I was expecting him to k-close me. He didn't. I left wondeirng what was wrong with me - why he hadn't kissed me.
magic moments :)
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