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| Author: | Vortex525 [ Tue Jun 08, 2010 8:19 pm ] |
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I was wondering if you can use your skills as a PUA to get an ex girlfriend back? Or when the love / spark has gone you need to let go and try and move on? What do you guys think? |
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| Author: | AFC Royal [ Wed Jun 09, 2010 1:28 am ] |
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Of course you can. Should you? Probably not. A PUA could get his ex back, but he would choose not to because there are other women out there for him. Getting your ex back won't improve your life. You can either improve your life by becoming a PUA, or you can get your ex back and get dumped again at a later date. Your choice. |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 8:08 pm ] |
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the question is simple: why did you break up in the first place??? was there cheating did the relationship get stale did she want kids theres always a reason relationships never just end |
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| Author: | Vortex525 [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:33 pm ] |
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She said she was not in love with me. She felt like we were just good friends. |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:37 pm ] |
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that means youve been put in the 'friend zone' its difficult to move from friends to lovers zone it'll be harder for you because youve already had a relationship with her |
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| Author: | Vortex525 [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:42 pm ] |
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But I don't no how the hell I got into the friends zone as we were boy and girl friend for 5 and a bit years. So I guess that's that then? How do you go from cool to friend? |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:47 pm ] |
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that is unusual after 5 years that she now wants to be friends, there could be a few reasons she wanted to get married and was waiting for you to ask the question and got tired of waiting, she may have felt that the relationship had gotten stale or complacent with no excitement, maybe the passion had gone in her mind you could be seeing someone else on the side. there could be a million reasons but the truth is u'll beat yourself up about it, im sorry that ive been so blunt |
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| Author: | Vortex525 [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:50 pm ] |
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I don't no as I wanted to tie the knot and have kids and all that must she was not really that keen. I guess it's not good to try an get back with an ex. Just really sucks big time. |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:56 pm ] |
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unfortunately i know about getting back with exes too well ive broken up with 2 exes and got back together with them! massive mistakes the first wanted me to get her pregnant and she was cheating with my best friend at that point( i havent spoken to him since) and the second we brokeup and got back together around 13 times!!! the problem with her was she wanted kids and i didnt and still dont and she wanted to get married, in that point of my life i couldnt see that i could do better so i was settling! |
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