Being new to the game your thinking it's all good but it's not: ALL GAME IS NOT CREATED EQUAL. You are probably treating all the girls exactly the same so A HB6 needs more attention than a HB10(who admires your indifference) because the HB10 is indifferent to all attention because she always gets it without earning it based on her looks.
A good example of the difference in gaming is, HB6 want to be told their beautiful because their mildly attractive and if you said that (don't) it indicates that your attracted to her as a whole, personality included. it's chick validation meanwhile a HB10 doesnt want to hear a word about her looks she tired of it coming up she wants to be validated for her ideas and abilities not her smoking hot body.
As for looks if your considered highly attractive guy you have to game down to HB6 because they'll be intimidated by your overall package looks and social sophistication. Don't neg any girl under 7 with a backhanded neg (think the old real fingernails bit) but you can tease playfully but not on her appearance