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Author:  mychemicalromance [ Sun Jun 06, 2010 8:05 pm ]
Post subject:  I love a engaged girl. It's a problem! What do i do?
Hi to all the teachers of the seduction!
I'm a italian boy (28 years), sorry for my english.
It is a pleasure for me know you, my friends have spoken very well to me of you.

I expose my situation: i love a girl (22 years) that he met in November at my university. Unfortunately then I discovered that the girl is engaged (with a 25 years boy). but I has not surrendered. In this months, I made a nice friendly relationship with her. Next, I moved away for two weeks. Then, She searched me and She asked me why I leave. I told her that love. She told me that he had already understood, but was sorry that I separated because she appreciate me, she told that a better person.
Now, what can I do to make her fall in love for me?
Thank you.
Author:  mychemicalromance [ Mon Jun 07, 2010 10:42 pm ]
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help me !!! :(
Author:  Jelly [ Mon Jun 07, 2010 11:13 pm ]
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This is a site dedicated to the art of picking up women. This is not something that is usually dealt with here.
usually we would tell you that you have a case of oneitis. Also known as being stuck on one girl, this happens to many men but u will push through it.

Honestly from what I can understand which took a long time to figure out bc of the way the english is written is that she just wanted to be friends and "appreciates that your a good person"-that always sounds great when you dont have a clue but I dont want to ever hear something like that.
U've been LBJF'ed-lets just be friends.
Also women have a hard time saying no so they mask it with thing like your a good person but...etc
hate to burst ur bubble.
Author:  mychemicalromance [ Tue Jun 08, 2010 12:39 am ]
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This is a site dedicated to the art of picking up women. This is not something that is usually dealt with here.
usually we would tell you that you have a case of oneitis. Also known as being stuck on one girl, this happens to many men but u will push through it.

Honestly from what I can understand which took a long time to figure out bc of the way the english is written is that she just wanted to be friends and "appreciates that your a good person"-that always sounds great when you dont have a clue but I dont want to ever hear something like that.
U've been LBJF'ed-lets just be friends.
Also women have a hard time saying no so they mask it with thing like your a good person but...etc
hate to burst ur bubble.
Thanks a lot for your reply, very kind! Sorry, I wrote here because I needed an opinion from the masters of seduction. Describe better my situation: as soon as I saw this girl I fell in love, then I tried to see her often, and she appreciated more . Let me know if there is a way for her to leave her boyfriend. I cortege her but not insistently. She appreciates my romance, that her boyfriend did not.
Author:  Jelly [ Tue Jun 08, 2010 3:03 am ]
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appreciating your romance does not mean she is suddenly going to dump her guy whom she is engaged to. Back b4 I met this community Ive had girls say they appreciated my romance but it didnt do sh1t.
Romance is nice once ur in a relationship to spice things up. Getting a girl is not about being romantic, It is about showing and making her feel that your are better than other guys and that you are the guy for her.

But you are asking for help for your situation although I highly suggest you forget her, even though u believe she is this one special dream girl.
So what u need to do is immerse yourself in this PUA stuff and understand what is really going on. You need to learn for yourself what you are doing wrong and correct it. When you figure this out you will prolly be upset at the stuff u have done and wonder how u could act in those ways.
Go learn this situation has a very complex answer in which you need to change yourself
Author:  mychemicalromance [ Tue Jun 08, 2010 6:29 pm ]
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appreciating your romance does not mean she is suddenly going to dump her guy whom she is engaged to. Back b4 I met this community Ive had girls say they appreciated my romance but it didnt do sh1t.
Romance is nice once ur in a relationship to spice things up. Getting a girl is not about being romantic, It is about showing and making her feel that your are better than other guys and that you are the guy for her.

But you are asking for help for your situation although I highly suggest you forget her, even though u believe she is this one special dream girl.
So what u need to do is immerse yourself in this PUA stuff and understand what is really going on. You need to learn for yourself what you are doing wrong and correct it. When you figure this out you will prolly be upset at the stuff u have done and wonder how u could act in those ways.
Go learn this situation has a very complex answer in which you need to change yourself
Jelly, you were very helpful, I must strengthen myself for sure!

I realized that this girl does not like when I devote myself to other girls. And 'jealous!

Then he says that I do remember a ex boyfriend, who was very romantic too, she has revived those feelings. However, I also think of other girls, but the problem is she for me is' icon of beauty, is a landmark
Author:  Jelly [ Tue Jun 08, 2010 8:59 pm ]
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Then he says that I do remember a ex boyfriend, who was very romantic too, she has revived those feelings.
That is throwing me for a loop I cant figure out what your trying to say.

Its good that she's jealous, but if shes engaged Im still confused on why this girl cares. She could also just be jealous cuz she's not getting the same attention yet she still mite not want a relationship
Author:  TheLastWolf [ Tue Jun 08, 2010 10:55 pm ]
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Then he says that I do remember a ex boyfriend, who was very romantic too, she has revived those feelings.
That is throwing me for a loop I cant figure out what your trying to say.

Its good that she's jealous, but if shes engaged Im still confused on why this girl cares. She could also just be jealous cuz she's not getting the same attention yet she still mite not want a relationship
He's trying to say that he reminds her of an ex-boyfriend.

And I agree, she's definitely an attention seeker.

You have to move on.
Author:  Jelly [ Wed Jun 09, 2010 3:16 am ]
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Yes, Ive seen friends who went for girls showering them with attention but they wouldnt date them. This friend finally moves on and this girl keeps texting my friend, not bc she wants to date him she just enjoyed the attention
Author:  crawlinkingsnake [ Wed Jun 09, 2010 5:20 am ]
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The worst part about this situation is what Im about to explain...

Its definitely bad ju ju to be ruining a loving relationship between two other people, I have done this more than once and its not fun for anyone, including you!

Its going to hurt but the way I see it you can choose one of two options right now...

1. Be her friend and his. Accept that he had her first and respect it
OR
2. Never talk to her again and focus all of your energy on getting as many other girls you can handle untill you find you true love.

P.S. Theres not only One person for somebody. Theres only one type...
Author:  mychemicalromance [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 11:18 pm ]
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I have seen the girl again. In this moment, i am in a difficult situation, because I'm sorry separating me from her. Yesterday she has told me that nobody has ever had so many beautiful thoughts for her, as me.
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