I am 23 years old and have a 2.5 years old son. I am single (I left his mother 2 years ago) and want to get new girlfriends. My son stays 75% of time at his mother and 25% at my home.
Because of my many failures I decided to do something. I've read The Game (by Style), Venusian arts handbook (by Mystery) and some stuff about body language for seduction. Then I went out to pick up women many times and my pick up skills advanced to a much higher level. I am having more and more success in attracting women. But there is one big problem.
Every woman who learns that I have a son, suddenly doesn't want to be with me anymore.
If they learn that I have a son in first couple of hours we meet, they just leave. Instantly.
If I tell them for my son after days or weeks, they say LJBF or something similar and within some hours(or instantly) invent an excuse why they don't want to be with me. More than half of them are even sincere and tell the true reason - because I am a father.
From the moment in which a woman learns that I am a father, she gives me no more IOIs, only IODs. Her body language changes instantly and forever.
The only women that don't run away are the ones who are dating their boyfriends for years and want to have their own children (with their BF). But I prefer not seducing such women.
What to do? This is a thing that can't be a secret if I want to have a girlfriend. I don't want only one-night-stands, but also a girlfriend for some time (but I also don't intend to keep the first one I get for the rest of my life
). So what to do? How can I tell this to a woman, that she won't leave me? I can't hide it forever. I am very young a father and from a very conservative country in Europe, but I believe (hope) that there is a way that this won't reppel at least some women.
Do you know any PUA with children, who had success and wrote a book with such techniques?