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| Author: | Seal_Of_Solomon [ Sat May 29, 2010 7:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What choice do I have? |
I have no friends for a very good reason. I was in a depression for a couple of years and isolated myself in my parents basement. Since I have no friends anymore these issues come up. * I can't hit on a girl at a place where they are more receptive. Like parties and clubs/bars. The first cause I don't know of any contacts. And the latter is not possible because that I'm a minority in a country where minorities need females or "majority escorts" to get in to clubs/bars. This is another major reason after not having any money that I don't get on a course. I might drag the crowd down. * When I "woke up" everyone had facebook and stuff. So if I would make an account on match.com girls might be asking for my facebook to check that I'm alright before meeting me... "Getting friends" is easier said than done and might be harder than picking up girls? Social anxiety being an immigrant: The problem with this is, if I sit at a café and drink coffee people think that I'm on well fare. And that I'm paying with their tax money instead of working.It's the same with walking around in a park, they think that I do it all day long. I can tell by their looks. Maybe I'm imagining it, but I don't think so. And this ruins the little self-esteem that I have. Are these not good reasons for not being able to get an woman? Where should I find me an woman? |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Sat May 29, 2010 8:01 pm ] |
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dude, your really not that bad off... Get a job = some money by some threads = look smart join a club = make some friends join a gym, or a club, something you enjoy doing, if you enjoy doing something, then people who go to these clubs will aswell, and bam, you have something in common. There are always people around who want to go out clubbing etc... don't be afraid to ask. dont expect results over night, may take a few weeks, but you just need to build a status up. Give people a reason to want to hang out with you, dont be too keen to want to make friends, may put people off. just act cool, have good body language etc... you will be fine, keep me posted! |
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