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Author:  Graham32 [ Wed May 26, 2010 10:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Meeting a girl I have DHV'd too much
Im not entirely new to pua. Have all the mystery stuff, watched his videos read all his books etc.... same for Wygent, DeAngelo, Durden etc. Pretty much Ive being dipping in and out of this stuff for about 2 years... though Im far from an expert. In comparison to some people here I probably am an AFC. I still think its xmas when I get a HB6 :L

Ok so heres the story. Back about 2 years ago, being very underconfident with girls I decided to try out my new skills online. It worked like a charm and got me meeting girls. And after maybe 3 months I gaveup the online stuff altogether. But I kept in contact with one girl.

So Ive being talking to this girl for about a year now and lets be honest I really did hit her with an obscene amount of DHV's (even to this day I test out all my new stuff on her before I field test it). So now it turns out we are meeting up (in just over a month) and shes really going to expect me to be this serious Alpha-male-chick-magnet.

Its her 21st birthday (thus the meeting)... and if I dont turn up she really really will be heartbroken. I want to be clear here. Im not trying to F or K close this girl. I really do just want to be friends. But shes not going to very happy when she finds out I spent a year lieing to her every week about the girls I was turning down and the way other guys act when Im around.

I really just want to be friends with her. But in reality, shes either gonna think I was lying to her.. or deluded... either way shes gonna blow me off.


Im not sure at all what to do. Im half wondering if I started acting more alpha-male over the next month (Alpha male and girls go hand in hand) then on the night I could probably crank up the alpha-male mode a few notches and not be a million miles from what she expects... But given the short notice I dont know if thats a realistic plan..?? And after 2 weeks of thinking and panicing its all I can come up with it. I really am stuck.

Guys **any** help at all would be sick.

Remember Im not trying to get **anything** out of this. I just want to meet the girl. Be somewhat similar to how she thought. And then for us to keep on talking as normal. Thats all I want.
Author:  ALPHA LiON [ Wed May 26, 2010 10:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl I have DHV'd too much
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Im not trying to F or K close this girl.
I really just want to be friends with her.
Then don't worry about this stuff :?
Author:  Graham32 [ Wed May 26, 2010 11:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl I have DHV'd too much
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Then don't worry about this stuff :?

Its hard not to worry. Shes gonna be pissed when she finds out. Id be pissed if I was in her shoes and found out.

Its ironic. If I never lied to her then she would have blown me off after the first hour or two and we wouldnt have even got this far. But those same lies are now threatening to destroy everything we have.

And yeah. She is does mean alot to me.
Author:  Sirva [ Thu May 27, 2010 5:48 am ]
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you created a false image about yourself, and now you must apply it to yourself or everything fails. So just remember the image you created about yourself ( im guessing its more or less who you want to be in the end? ) and just try to act like that. Sure it wont go totaly smooth, but there is a high chance it will fly if you do that with confidence. Because if you convinced her that's who you are over the internet and she wants to believe thats who you are, then give it to her.
Author:  Bofu [ Fri May 28, 2010 9:27 pm ]
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you created a false image about yourself, and now you must apply it to yourself or everything fails. So just remember the image you created about yourself ( im guessing its more or less who you want to be in the end? ) and just try to act like that. Sure it wont go totaly smooth, but there is a high chance it will fly if you do that with confidence. Because if you convinced her that's who you are over the internet and she wants to believe thats who you are, then give it to her.
Yeah I agree, it's all about confidence... If it's something materialistic that she wants you to prove, remember that a confident guy will have nothing to prove to anyone, especially if all you want to be is friends.
Author:  naniekso [ Sat May 29, 2010 11:18 pm ]
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100% mental :D
Author:  MHFenix [ Sun May 30, 2010 10:31 pm ]
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Yeah, Man up.

HOWEVER...

Remember that the most awesome people are those that don't try to be awesome, they just are. Be the badass you are.
Author:  ALPHA LiON [ Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl I have DHV'd too much
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Its hard not to worry. Shes gonna be pissed when she finds out. Id be pissed if I was in her shoes and found out.

Its ironic. If I never lied to her then she would have blown me off after the first hour or two and we wouldnt have even got this far. But those same lies are now threatening to destroy everything we have.

And yeah. She is does mean alot to me.
Firstly you have clearly got oneitis.. accept that and remember there are other girls or it will crush you.

Now unless you have copied and pasted routines word for word, im pretty sure your brain done some thinking there. Just throw in some knowledge here and there and don't worry about replicating entire routines from gurus.

At the end of the day this is a transformation game, your probably just nervous because you haven't really used this stuff before but it will all become second nature with time.
Author:  ALPHA LiON [ Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:46 pm ]
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Oh and just for the record if done correctly you cannot DHV too much.
But don't brag, that's a surefire DLV.
Author:  AFC Royal [ Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:52 pm ]
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Honestly, it's not a DHV if you're lying. So, you haven't DHV'd her too much.
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