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| Author: | El dude [ Tue May 25, 2010 8:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | tried the hi" newbie mission |
yeah i went out yesterday alone and did the mission on my way to the gym, it was about a mile away so i decided id do it on the walk there. every hi i did felt weird and it definetely didnt feel natural. i approached many people about 15 and they were mostly elderly people and indians cus there wasnt any HB around and they either: 1. didnt say hi 2. said hi but said it fake like they were just saying it out of obligation 3. said hi then looked at me like, can i help you? 4. said a quick hi and rushed off (most did this) I said hi to people alone and in groups walking past me but cudnt say it to anyone in the crowded areas got to anxious and felt like i would be on show. The best hi i did was walking back from the gym, i said hi to a HB8 and asked her how to get to so and so, then told her about a party i was going to. convo ended but if i had game i prpbably cud have continued it and got her number. It seems easier for me to say to a random an opener eg 'hey im looking for a coffee shop, do you know any good ones.' or 'do you think this shirt looks gay.' Whatever anything to say more than hi, saying hi just seems pointless if it doesnt lead to anything. anyway id like to redo this challenge but with a friend there with me and next time il probably prepare some openers to say after the hi |
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| Author: | ByronZ [ Tue May 25, 2010 9:55 am ] |
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I would recommend just learning to say Hi to people until it feels natural. You are projecting and therefore creating unnecessary anxiety. If you come accross a situation where you start a conversation, have a quick one. Note that if a woman mentions somewhere they are going to be, that probably means they would like to see you there... One tip I will give is to learn to ask questions. Whereas you were worried about what to say, if you had asked her about the party, she likely would have invited you. Ask where she is going.. where she is coming from. Getting a #Close using this method is VERY fast.. You: Hi Her: Hello * smiles with her eyes * You: Did you see that midget walkin the Great Dane back there? Her: Haha no... where is he? You: I'm not sure. Your seem interesting. I have to get to an appointment. Would you like to get some coffee tomarrow morning? Her: Sure, here is my number. Call me later * smiles ad walks away* All this takes place in like one minute. She will carry away a positive impression of you that you can reinforce the next day. Note, never change the time or date of your first meeting. You wont recover from it. Anyhow, good luck to you mate, Byron |
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