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| Author: | Be_yourself [ Sun May 23, 2010 10:26 pm ] |
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Okay , So I got introduced to the PUA world from a friend ( he's my sort of mentor if you will ) , To my question , there is this HB8 at college and I get IOI from her , I neg okay , but i need help on isolating , to built up the kino then close , My buddy is telling me to bounce , but im thinking if i do this then her freinds are just going to follow (even if i say can i borrow your freind) . At the minute im just thinking of having a shot in the dark with a " will you meet up" , which im fully expecting to crash & burn , any tips because im finding it hard to state my intentions, and not get stuck in the freind zone. |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Mon May 24, 2010 3:48 am ] |
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You'll feel lost in the beginning quite often, just GO for it without thinking and you'll start getting more comfortable. Desensitizing yourself to rejection and failure is necessary to eventually becoming successful. And talk to EVERYONE you see, bums on the street, old ladies at the laundry, everyone. It'll help you build your conversational skills, become a better listener, and learn how to make social interactions go more smoothly. |
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| Author: | Be_yourself [ Mon May 24, 2010 3:16 pm ] |
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Cheers dude , il take your advise and put it into practice. At the minute we are sort of meeting up for a revision session on wednesday , any tips on what I should be doing here ? |
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| Author: | Sleye [ Mon May 24, 2010 5:06 pm ] |
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As always said before, Confidence is key. I wouldnt say " will you meet up?" I'd say something along the lines of "hey im going ___ you should definitely meet me there" if she makes up some BS excuse that she's busy (which she more than likely will) you simply say: no problem if you're still interested after that you should try telling her you're going to a club or party this weekend and she should go to. |
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| Author: | Grim [ Mon May 24, 2010 5:31 pm ] |
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The key here is isolate. Isolate her. Wherever you are get her and you alone. Get your wingmen to occupy the obstacles if any exist. If you have no wingman, the tactic is easy. Get her talking about herself. Ask about her major, why she likes it, ask if she is into some type of music, etc... Just get her talking. Then say, "We should continue this conversation over there," - best done if there is a couch nearby and you two can sit together. Now you have bounced her away from here friends, but haven't left the environment. As for picking her up - ask "What are your plans after this?" If she has them, ask to meet up another time. If she has none, say you two should hang out later. It helps to have pimped your pad with stuff to do together even if it's watch crazy Youtube videos. I usually use tarot cards. |
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| Author: | Be_yourself [ Wed May 26, 2010 3:28 pm ] |
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Well today didn't go great , it turns out she likes this guy , so at the minute im just thinking of forgetting it and moving on , even though that's not what I really want to do. |
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| Author: | Grim [ Thu May 27, 2010 6:00 pm ] |
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Move on, it's better than obsessing over a girl. |
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| Author: | Be_yourself [ Fri May 28, 2010 1:58 pm ] |
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Already one step ahead my freind. |
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