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Author:  mmmkay [ Fri May 21, 2010 7:59 pm ]
Post subject:  She flaked on me and I called her out.. what next?

What's up guys. Here's a short history of me and this chick...

We were taking the same class at university. I got invited by her to hang out at her place and study a couple of weeks ago. It was fun (but there were a bunch of people there too so I couldn't kino/escalate but I think I was a lot of fun). Last week we were supposed to hang out with a bunch of people at the museum (for extra credit). I texted her where we should meet up. She tells me that everyone bailed and we're probably not going anymore.

She gets all whiny that she needs the extra credit so I get some balls and I'm like hey lets just go then. She texts me back that she's got plans now (probably bullshit).. I text her back "okay, you don't know what you're missing :) gl on the exam" or some crap like that. She texts a bunch of people (myself included) a few hours later that they are studying at her place. I text her back 1 hr later that I can't come since I'm at a party (I actually wasn't but I wanted her to feel bad that she didn't hang out with me).

A few days later it's exam day. She asks me how the party was etc. I'm like it was fun, blah blah. A few minutes later I call her out (in front of our little peer group) and I say "how was all that imaginary stuff you had to do instead of hanging out with me?" She gets like really flustered (jokingly) and I was also semi-kidding. She mentions that her roommate got a flat screen TV and they were watching movies (maybe an IOI) instead of studying blah blah. Now, it's been 3 days since we last talked and I'm thinking about texting her something.

What complicates the situation is that I'm actually into her friend a lot more (and I never got the chance to get her number). I'm not sure

a) what should I say since I would like to keep hanging out with her and her friends over the summer. (female friend abundance)
b) how should I get her friend's number (I was kind of a pussy and never asked but she was constantly absent from class, but I think she maybe? likes me or at least finds me interesting)

Would it be rude to be like "so when am I getting invited over to check out your new TV?" or something like that?

Should I ask "hey can I get A, B, C, and D's number from class, I never got a chance to ask?" (one of the people being the chick I'm interested in)

Sorry if this is kind of an AFC question, truth be told, I've NEVER been in a situation like this before lol :P

Author:  mmmkay [ Fri May 21, 2010 11:15 pm ]
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bump ;p
I'd really like to text her today, any ideas what I should say?

Author:  JKill5 [ Fri May 21, 2010 11:31 pm ]
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why does her watching tv with her roommate seem like an IOI?

she seems kinda like she is blowing you off. i would just move on.

Author:  mmmkay [ Fri May 21, 2010 11:34 pm ]
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why does her watching tv with her roommate seem like an IOI?

she seems kinda like she is blowing you off. i would just move on.
Maybe I'm wrong, but just because she showed interest in what I was doing then tried to qualify herself (I didn't even start the conversation w/her). Again, I'm not even interested in this chick that much, I just think it would be cool to hang out w/he and some of her friends over the summer

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