1. White lies are a part of the game. Do it well and you demonstrate confidence and give others a reason to confide in you. Do it poorly and/or at the wrong time and you turn yourself into a desperate, lying, dork.
2. YOU do not game strangers. This cannot possibly be true. For if you did, you'd recognize recurring social themes/situations and you'd game any/every girl properly. Most of all, you wouldn't be asking this question in the first place.
3. DHV'ing isn't about lying to strangers or those you know about your knowledge or PU abilities. You've seen dorks do this in real life ALL THE TIME. You've seen your friends go, "And I did this chick and that chick and that chick . . . you know, when I went to Canada and Nebraska last year . . . " - Some of you are ignorant enough to believe crap like this. Others of you laugh. Why turn yourself into the village virgin idiot? Do not make a habit of this. (I know guys who are in their 30's who are STILL pulling this shit)
4. With young kids in school, a friend vs. intimate relationship line is fairly weak. Otherwise, very few high schoolers would be fucking. When you get out to the real World, social identities become stronger. You become a professional, somebody's boss or an employee, a neighbor, associate, or partner . . . As an adult, there are more repercussions to shifts in social identities than some dorky kids choosing not to sit with you during lunch period.
5. Chatting with girls for weeks on end does NOT equal game. The point of the game is to get your target interested in you enough so that she will comply to a one on one meeting. THAT'S ALL. If you get to a point in the social situation where a one on one meeting is possible, pounce on this opportunity. Ask her out and shut her and yourself the fuck up.
6. The truth is that with nearly every girl that you know, you're already at the point where you can propose a one on one meeting. Only . . . you have never done this so you don't recognize it. (Believe me, you're already there)
7. Since you don't seem to know how to "ask a girl out", read up some more and figure out a few routines that work with your personality and style. No matter how much others tell you about their "awesome pu shit", if you don't feel comfortable with it, it won't work with you. You should always have a few of these routines just ready to go . . .
8. The next step from the one on one meeting is to migrate to a place where intimacy in private is possible.(This is a pu skill and there's plenty of material on this site) From this point, any guy with some experience under his belt (regardless of whether he knows or doesn't know game) should be able to press the right buttons for a little play. . . and especially in high school, it doesn't matter whether you call yourselves friends, hip hop buddies or whatever the hell it is that you kids call yourselves. Childish labeling is no match for hormones.
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