"We cannot become who we want to be without changing who we are"
Don't remember who said it but I believe it is so fucking true.
A while ago I tried to keep everything I had, friends, lifestyle etc while trying to become a pua, but it is truly impossible to try to become, in this case, a pua, without changing something that you currently are.
Everything new that you do you have to give up something, think of yourself 5 years ago and realize that it has been replaced by who you are right now.
lovely quote in my opinion