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| Author: | NPlatinum [ Wed May 19, 2010 1:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Do I give up, or do I need to formulate a plan? |
Right theres this girl. Thats how most topics start and I'm no different. We used to work together a couple of years ago, we got on really well and kinda liked eachother, but she went to Australia for 6months and I never really saw or spoke to her again untill the easter holidays just gone. We met in a club and got on really well so I popped her a text the next day and we were texting on and off for several weeks, sometimes with her texting me first. It felt like the beggining of something that could have happened ages ago if it wasnt for circumstance. Then a couple of weeks ago, my mates and I were in Leeds celebrating a birthday which is where she goes to university. I met her in the last club, after she text me saying it would be nice to see me, and we ended up having a really good time together. I was confident for the first time in about 2 years and the banter was flowing. After this, we continued texting and I asked if I could take her out. She agreed, but a couple of days later kind of blew me off because there was some night out at her uni. She then said she could come out with me during the day. Naturally I was a little bit miffed, so kind of said its ok we could do it another time. Anyway, I thought to myself stop being a big baby and just go see her during the day, so I did. We just went to a pub and had a bit of a chat which was actually really cool, even if I didnt feel very comfortable. That night we went out to a club with her mates, had a good time dancing and kissing etc... We went back to hers, and I slept in her bed with her. We didnt 'sleep together' but we were just hugging and kissing and talking a lot. She told me that shes not very good with guys and isnt used to thinking for 2 people. Too which I responded by taking her hand and saying that thinking like that will comke naturally if shes with the right guy to which she agreed. It was really nice. The next day though, I felt horrifically uncomfortable. I couldnt find anything to say to her and it was kind of awkward. She walked with me back to my mateshouse in Leeds, after saying she needed to 'revise'. The goodbye was me kissing her on the cheek, a quick hug and a smile saying good luck with your exams. Of course, I felt massivly bummed by this. I left it a few days before texting her again to invite her to a house party my mate was having back in Leeds. She said she could make it and I thought all was gravy, even though she never texts me first anymore. Then we started talking about the other night, and I said that I owed her a bottle of wine after she bought us one in the club. I was obviously implying that I should take her out. She replied by saying 'no its ok I'll let you off. Sleep time Night night'. I was like FFS. So basically guys, if youve had the time to read through this essay, is it a no hoper or do you have any ideas for me to get her? I new she did like me, but maybe I ruined it with the awkwardness of the next morning. Or maybe her not being good with guys has put her off. Shes a very outgoing independent person, and even though we've only met up a couple of times, I really feel shes perfect for me. She's gorgeous, and she likes football. what more could a guy want? Help please. NPlatinum x |
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| Author: | Turbo [ Wed May 19, 2010 1:32 am ] |
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Try to use openers on her. Then just continue to game her again. She isn't gone completely, she just needs to be excited again! When you acted awkward, she saw you were a dud. Just be consistent this time. But be careful. With my experience, girls try not to waste their time. She may be ULTRA BORING now. So have a lot of interesting and fun topics and games like the cube. |
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| Author: | NPlatinum [ Wed May 19, 2010 4:23 am ] |
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Cheers for the advice mate. I just think between now and the 29th (the next time Ill see her, if she shows) is a bit too long not to talk to her and still hope to keep her interested after the dissapointing show last week. |
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