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If she's been with him years, I'd just leave it, there's loads of girls out there.

You risk losing respect from your friend and the family if all is found out, is it worth it? I'd say no, I also believe in karma.

Just be happy you had it once.

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I know there are many risks involved but I doubt that she is happy with him and she even had a few negative things to say about him. I dont think the family would lose respect for me as her dad actually told her a lot of good things about me which might very well be half the reason she was attracted to me... And that was probably the best sex Ive had in the past 2 years lol. I have no issue with getting laid but her box was magical lol.

It sounds likeyou already have your mind made up and your just trying to validate your decision. She is from out of town so are you hoping for a long distance relationship or just fuck budy when you see her once and a while.

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You breaking her and her bf up isn't a good thing, sure you'll probably end up getting your own way, but what says she'll stay faithfull to you? It's a risk, if you want to take it do it.

If it was me, I'd just go with the flow, chat to her as normal, see her and if it develops more, so be it.

Gotta ask yourself if you really wanna be with someone who just sleeps with anyone the first chance she gets when she has a boyfriend. Unless all you want is to fuck her, in which case I would say that you are there to make YOU happy and that if she wants you then her boyfriend is obviously doing something wrong, which isnt your problem.

Thats the way I see situations like this anyway. I have no problem with guys going after girls with boyfriends (unless you're mates with the boyfriend) because at the end of the day if the boyfriend is treating her well, chances are she wont cheat. If he isnt, then someone else (YOU) will.

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If I see a girl as GF material and she cheats on her bf, whether I know him or not, it tells me all I need to know!

Author:	whiterussian [ Tue May 18, 2010 9:59 am ]
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So my friends sister came into town on his birthday. We all had a bunch of drinks, one thing led to another and I ended up having sex with her in the hotel room bathroom while my buddy was passed out in the room. In the morning i found out she had a boyfriend that she has been dating for years. I got her number but she is from out of town and her bf keeps tabs on her so we barely have a chance to talk. I just found out she is coming into town and their family is going to the lake for the weekend, I could go since im good friends with her brother but her bf is going to be there....what should i do?? Im not really sure what direction i want to go with her but she is really attractive and amazing in bed. How do i work around the boyfriend issue to fuck her again?

Author:	Chelios [ Tue May 18, 2010 10:49 am ]
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If she's been with him years, I'd just leave it, there's loads of girls out there. You risk losing respect from your friend and the family if all is found out, is it worth it? I'd say no, I also believe in karma. Just be happy you had it once.

Author:	whiterussian [ Tue May 18, 2010 10:58 am ]
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Quote: If she's been with him years, I'd just leave it, there's loads of girls out there. You risk losing respect from your friend and the family if all is found out, is it worth it? I'd say no, I also believe in karma. Just be happy you had it once. I know there are many risks involved but I doubt that she is happy with him and she even had a few negative things to say about him. I dont think the family would lose respect for me as her dad actually told her a lot of good things about me which might very well be half the reason she was attracted to me... And that was probably the best sex Ive had in the past 2 years lol. I have no issue with getting laid but her box was magical lol.

Author:	Carmo [ Tue May 18, 2010 3:08 pm ]
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It sounds likeyou already have your mind made up and your just trying to validate your decision. She is from out of town so are you hoping for a long distance relationship or just fuck budy when you see her once and a while.

Author:	Chelios [ Tue May 18, 2010 3:41 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: If she's been with him years, I'd just leave it, there's loads of girls out there. You risk losing respect from your friend and the family if all is found out, is it worth it? I'd say no, I also believe in karma. Just be happy you had it once. I know there are many risks involved but I doubt that she is happy with him and she even had a few negative things to say about him. I dont think the family would lose respect for me as her dad actually told her a lot of good things about me which might very well be half the reason she was attracted to me... And that was probably the best sex Ive had in the past 2 years lol. I have no issue with getting laid but her box was magical lol. You breaking her and her bf up isn't a good thing, sure you'll probably end up getting your own way, but what says she'll stay faithfull to you? It's a risk, if you want to take it do it. If it was me, I'd just go with the flow, chat to her as normal, see her and if it develops more, so be it.

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Author:	whiterussian [ Tue May 18, 2010 5:16 pm ]
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Quote: It sounds likeyou already have your mind made up and your just trying to validate your decision. She is from out of town so are you hoping for a long distance relationship or just fuck budy when you see her once and a while. I just kinda wanna go with the flow and see what it turns into...she lives about 2 hours drive from where im at so its not too far. Also she is 26, which is 4 years older than me so hopefully thats not going to be a barrier

Author:	whiterussian [ Tue May 18, 2010 5:19 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: If she's been with him years, I'd just leave it, there's loads of girls out there. You risk losing respect from your friend and the family if all is found out, is it worth it? I'd say no, I also believe in karma. Just be happy you had it once. I know there are many risks involved but I doubt that she is happy with him and she even had a few negative things to say about him. I dont think the family would lose respect for me as her dad actually told her a lot of good things about me which might very well be half the reason she was attracted to me... And that was probably the best sex Ive had in the past 2 years lol. I have no issue with getting laid but her box was magical lol. You breaking her and her bf up isn't a good thing, sure you'll probably end up getting your own way, but what says she'll stay faithfull to you? It's a risk, if you want to take it do it. If it was me, I'd just go with the flow, chat to her as normal, see her and if it develops more, so be it. You are probably right, what I was thinking is if I go to the lake with them and Just hang out and not try anything unless she starts it.

Author:	NPlatinum [ Wed May 19, 2010 4:33 am ]
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Gotta ask yourself if you really wanna be with someone who just sleeps with anyone the first chance she gets when she has a boyfriend. Unless all you want is to fuck her, in which case I would say that you are there to make YOU happy and that if she wants you then her boyfriend is obviously doing something wrong, which isnt your problem. Thats the way I see situations like this anyway. I have no problem with guys going after girls with boyfriends (unless you're mates with the boyfriend) because at the end of the day if the boyfriend is treating her well, chances are she wont cheat. If he isnt, then someone else (YOU) will.

Author:	Chelios [ Wed May 19, 2010 6:59 am ]
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Quote: Gotta ask yourself if you really wanna be with someone who just sleeps with anyone the first chance she gets when she has a boyfriend. Unless all you want is to fuck her, in which case I would say that you are there to make YOU happy and that if she wants you then her boyfriend is obviously doing something wrong, which isnt your problem. Thats the way I see situations like this anyway. I have no problem with guys going after girls with boyfriends (unless you're mates with the boyfriend) because at the end of the day if the boyfriend is treating her well, chances are she wont cheat. If he isnt, then someone else (YOU) will. If I see a girl as GF material and she cheats on her bf, whether I know him or not, it tells me all I need to know!

Author:	NPlatinum [ Wed May 19, 2010 5:12 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Gotta ask yourself if you really wanna be with someone who just sleeps with anyone the first chance she gets when she has a boyfriend. Unless all you want is to fuck her, in which case I would say that you are there to make YOU happy and that if she wants you then her boyfriend is obviously doing something wrong, which isnt your problem. Thats the way I see situations like this anyway. I have no problem with guys going after girls with boyfriends (unless you're mates with the boyfriend) because at the end of the day if the boyfriend is treating her well, chances are she wont cheat. If he isnt, then someone else (YOU) will. If I see a girl as GF material and she cheats on her bf, whether I know him or not, it tells me all I need to know! Yeah I get that, but I suppose its all down to circumstance. If shes just a slag who will cheat with anyone then fair play. But maybe shes unhappy in a relationship and finds comfort with someone else, but too hard to break up with a boyfriend. Its all situation.

Author:	Jav [ Wed May 19, 2010 5:15 pm ]
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think: Ignorance is bliss or Out of sight, out of mind. come on..... DO IT

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