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Author:  neztirual [ Sun May 09, 2010 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  She "doesn't want a relationship".
Hi!

Story: I hooked up with this girl in a club about a month ago, slept together, no sex because she had a boyfriend, and would'nt go that far...

We did this again two weeks later, and now, a week ago, she broke up with her boyfriend, and we spent the whole weekend together, and we go really great together!!

The thing is, she says she is done with having boyfriends, and doesn't want a relationship in a long time...

So, is this just something she is saying to act a little 'hard-to-get'? Do you guys have any tips for further game...?

Will be appreciated ;)


-alex
Author:  tekryder [ Sun May 09, 2010 11:52 pm ]
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im a pua in training, but you sound like your in a good position, she will trust you, just have to start escalating the sexual tension when your with her.
Author:  round-2 [ Sun May 09, 2010 11:53 pm ]
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do you want a relationship? she cheated on her bf, might not be a good idea getting any more serious than you guys are already.

act like she never said that. just keep hanging out and having a good time with her. i was told by a girl once that they hate being asked "where are we going with this relationship" so avoid that topic at all cost. eventually if you game her right, the relationship will happen on its own.
Author:  pedrolive [ Sun May 09, 2010 11:55 pm ]
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do you want a relationship? she cheated on her bf, might not be a good idea getting any more serious than you guys are already.

act like she never said that. just keep hanging out and having a good time with her. i was told by a girl once that they hate being asked "where are we going with this relationship" so avoid that topic at all cost. eventually if you game her right, the relationship will happen on its own.
Great tip
Author:  DboTheHero [ Sun May 09, 2010 11:59 pm ]
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Hard to answer this one accurately because it could be a variety of things, no one can tell what's really going through her head. However, it could be one of a few things.

She's just come out of a relationship and she genuinely doesn't want to jump straight into another one.

It's an IOD and it's her way of telling you she's not that interested any more (this is the worst case scenario but I don't think it's the case).

I'm sure there's many other things that it could mean that other people on here can point out. As for further game, I'd suggest not aiming for a relationship with her, because this will put pressure on her and that's not good. Just remain the fun guy, escalate with kino, and make sure it stays just fun. If she just wants a break from relationships, stay in the picture and things could happen.

~Deebo
Author:  tekryder [ Mon May 10, 2010 1:53 am ]
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whats a trip tho is she had a bf at the time, but was talking to other guys obviously.. either her relationship was falling off for a while, who knows. but that is just bothersome imo why females play like this.
Author:  Braden [ Mon May 10, 2010 3:23 am ]
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i agree with tekryder, sounds like youre in a real good position for yourself, barring you don't want a gf yourself. seems like this girl can be a nice FB who you can chill with as well. and youre still single yourself. so just escalate sexually and you should be good to go
Author:  Chelios [ Mon May 10, 2010 7:08 am ]
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To me, if a girl cheats on her BF and I know, it tells me. 1. she has lack of respect and secondly, I don't want her.

Use her as someone to chill with if anything. DHV out and about if she's cute.
Author:  mattarama [ Mon May 10, 2010 7:22 am ]
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I agree with everyone else. You don't want a relationship with a cheater.
However, you as a man want to have sex.
So have sex with her. But don't get in a relationship with her. Find someone else. Pre-mature relationships are the result of getting too comfortable and not wanting to sarge. Don't hang up your pua hat for this girl.
Author:  Chelios [ Mon May 10, 2010 7:42 am ]
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I agree with everyone else. You don't want a relationship with a cheater.
However, you as a man want to have sex.
So have sex with her. But don't get in a relationship with her. Find someone else. Pre-mature relationships are the result of getting too comfortable and not wanting to sarge. Don't hang up your pua hat for this girl.
I agree with the pre-mature relationshp bit. I was Gaming well, picking up my ways and sarging well, I met 1 nice girl I got on with and stopped learning, big mistake, because now I need to start over. Was very AFC of me back then!
Author:  mattarama [ Mon May 10, 2010 7:44 am ]
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I agree with everyone else. You don't want a relationship with a cheater.
However, you as a man want to have sex.
So have sex with her. But don't get in a relationship with her. Find someone else. Pre-mature relationships are the result of getting too comfortable and not wanting to sarge. Don't hang up your pua hat for this girl.
I agree with the pre-mature relationshp bit. I was Gaming well, picking up my ways and sarging well, I met 1 nice girl I got on with and stopped learning, big mistake, because now I need to start over. Was very AFC of me back then!
Did the same thing, worst part for me was I wasted a year of my best years (high school) making that mistake. Now, like you, I have to start all over...because that relationship died. But it did make me see I'm far too young to start settling down.
Author:  Chelios [ Mon May 10, 2010 8:07 am ]
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I agree with everyone else. You don't want a relationship with a cheater.
However, you as a man want to have sex.
So have sex with her. But don't get in a relationship with her. Find someone else. Pre-mature relationships are the result of getting too comfortable and not wanting to sarge. Don't hang up your pua hat for this girl.
I agree with the pre-mature relationshp bit. I was Gaming well, picking up my ways and sarging well, I met 1 nice girl I got on with and stopped learning, big mistake, because now I need to start over. Was very AFC of me back then!
Did the same thing, worst part for me was I wasted a year of my best years (high school) making that mistake. Now, like you, I have to start all over...because that relationship died. But it did make me see I'm far too young to start settling down.
Same as me really, although I had no ambition to settle down yet, I should have kept learning as The Game teaches you skills for life, not just seduction.
Author:  mattarama [ Mon May 10, 2010 8:17 am ]
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I used my virginity as an excuse to get into relationships. I was too into the comfort they provide, the easy sex they provide, and so on. As soon as I lost it I knew I was meant to be gaming girls...Not just having sex with one girl for the rest of my life. I was unhappy. Ever since I lost it my relationship had kind of crumbled because I began to lose interest. I regret taking the easy way out. Not only am I behind in my game, but I've got to bear the emotional trauma of a breakup.
Author:  Chelios [ Mon May 10, 2010 8:25 am ]
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I used my virginity as an excuse to get into relationships. I was too into the comfort they provide, the easy sex they provide, and so on. As soon as I lost it I knew I was meant to be gaming girls...Not just having sex with one girl for the rest of my life. I was unhappy. Ever since I lost it my relationship had kind of crumbled because I began to lose interest. I regret taking the easy way out. Not only am I behind in my game, but I've got to bear the emotional trauma of a breakup.
Unfortunately things happen that we don't want or plan for. Time to be positive, get back into gaming, and make the future whatever you want it to be. The past cannot be changed, but you can go in which direction you like in the future.
Author:  mattarama [ Mon May 10, 2010 8:28 am ]
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I used my virginity as an excuse to get into relationships. I was too into the comfort they provide, the easy sex they provide, and so on. As soon as I lost it I knew I was meant to be gaming girls...Not just having sex with one girl for the rest of my life. I was unhappy. Ever since I lost it my relationship had kind of crumbled because I began to lose interest. I regret taking the easy way out. Not only am I behind in my game, but I've got to bear the emotional trauma of a breakup.
Unfortunately things happen that we don't want or plan for. Time to be positive, get back into gaming, and make the future whatever you want it to be. The past cannot be changed, but you can go in which direction you like in the future.
Yeah man...I completely agree with you. Thanks.
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