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| Author: | reallylongnickname [ Fri May 07, 2010 4:03 am ] |
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So I've been hang out with this girl for 2 months and asked her out a week in advance and she agreed. She even suggested a particular restaurant. I reminded and asked her a few times if we where still on for the date, she said yes. No, I did not pressure her. We got together for coffee the day that we were suppose to date, and she changed her mind. I froze for minute. She asked if I was mad, I told her no, but it was difficult to hide. I did not freak out, I just was not talkative and later on gave her a bit of attitude. I did not know what my best reaction should be. To get up and walk away or go along with it. The descending turn, actually went like this: She changed restaurant choice, then changed to wanting to go to the movies then for me to just come over for coffee. I never bothered calling her to go for coffee. Later on, she gossiped to a mutual female friend that I creeped her out by my "none reactive look." I don't know if she really believes that or if she made it up about being creeped out. Anyway, she ignores me now probably due to the attitude I gave her. So what do you guys think of how I handled or should have handled the situation? and do you think there is a chance of recovery? The girl is 27 yrs old. |
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| Author: | tweeby [ Fri May 07, 2010 5:01 am ] |
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Ah young man, you failed. That was a bad reaction. Ok so it was natural. . . But still bad. . . In her eyes she will think you wanted her just for one thing. Creep. |
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| Author: | tekryder [ Sat May 08, 2010 12:09 am ] |
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you should have just went along with whatever she wanted but make it sound like you chose it so she knows that it didnt bother you. If you read alot of PUA material, you cant let them know it bothers you. Try to appear busy. Or say like "oh ok no big deal".. and then next time you talk to her, talk about where you went "yeah so i went and met up with some friends blah blah" . What helped me in 1 situation was have a girl on my myspace say "hey thanks for the dinner". *what i did was tell this other girl "hey i need to get a girl off my back, can you post something about us going to dinner together?" .. even tho i used this other girl to leave a comment, it worked on the girl i want because she started to dig further into me lol. |
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| Author: | reallylongnickname [ Sat May 08, 2010 4:55 am ] |
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Quote: Ah young man, you failed. That was a bad reaction. Ok so it was natural. . . But still bad. . . In her eyes she will think you wanted her just for one thing. Creep.
I'm also uncertain with your reply. Your sentence ends like this; "...just one thing" Then starts a new sentence with the word "creep" So are you calling me a creep?
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