Quote: I have been texting this chick back for three days straight now literally throughout the day. This has sort of went on a roll coaster since then as I qualified her like crazy.
Anyways, over text she started to get into more intimate discussion like what is your favorite food, describe yourself and so forth. I decided instead of dragging things out any further over text that I should continue the convo in person and start to escalate things. So I invited her to lunch the other day and she replied that she was busy and I responded like it did not matter. Now the issue here is that I cant tell if she likes me or not?
Should I 1) Freeze her out and wait to see if she re initiates the texting to see if she is really interested 2) Re initiate the texting myself with a funny opener and continue to build attraction?
Any advice is appreciated!
maybe she was busy you made the right call by responding like it didn't matter
you want to build investment from what your saying she sound invested so maybe she actually was busy and if not then she is not invested enough you just need to build more investment in her
have you spoke with her over a phone call yet ? this will build comfort and more investment
you sound like your on the right track just build more investment and comfort and when you next invite her out invite her to something you already plan on doing anyway maybe a group activity were she can bring friends along
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But I am still unsure if she is interested. She seems like she is invested but I am unsure. I want to make sure I am not wasting my time.