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Author:  RSDSkittles [ Thu May 06, 2010 12:16 am ]
Post subject:  Gaming when you're in a relationship
What do you guys think about it?

Im in a relationship for 3 years now, and I love her very much. In fact I could not use any pua skill on her, I fell in love instantly and doing so I lost all words and tactics. She's gorgeous, her looks are exactly congruent with my taste. Her body is slamming (underwear model) and her face is too cute. We live together and everything is going really well (ocasional fights tho).

So I really don't lack anything in my relationship, BUT I do miss gaming sometimes. There isn't a girl I met that is prettier then my gf, but I honestly like attention from other girls. I really like flirting with them and going on dates, without my gf knowing it. There really is no danger in it, unless she finds out, because I know she won't like it. But the fact is I dont want to hide things for my love, so Im puzzled here.
I mean I can give gaming up in an instance, but my ideal situation would be that I could keep gaming, kissing etc. and marry my girl someday and then stop gaming.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Thu May 06, 2010 1:05 am ]
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maybe draw the line at simply flirting, or TALK TO YOUR GIRL about.

Obviously, if you want to still date other girls, then this girl isn't as perfect for you as you're describing.
Author:  native [ Thu May 06, 2010 1:16 am ]
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I have the same issue. i just got into one whose pretty solid on not doing shit like that... but the game is part of my life now and i really dont want to live without it. i love the feeling of being able to turn the cutest one in the room onto you.

..is there a way to get your gf to accept or be okay with it?
Author:  Darkst0rm [ Thu May 06, 2010 4:22 pm ]
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Ugh, this whole thread reeks of selfishness. :?

Isn't the whole point of pickup to end up in long-term relationships with the woman of your dreams? Why would you want to waste your time on fast-food one-night-stands, when you've got a lifetime of steak, lobster and caviar right in front of you?
Author:  RSDSkittles [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 3:31 pm ]
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Ugh, this whole thread reeks of selfishness. :?

Isn't the whole point of pickup to end up in long-term relationships with the woman of your dreams? Why would you want to waste your time on fast-food one-night-stands, when you've got a lifetime of steak, lobster and caviar right in front of you?
For me it isn't. Besides, I do visit the McDonalds voluntarily sometimes, even tho I can afford the lobster and steak. And it is really easy to call people selfish, in the end I can't think of a single person who isn't. In fact if my girl never finds out, what is the harm? Don't be too sensitive please, I like to hear some good discussion points.
Author:  quickdrawyall [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 3:38 pm ]
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I don't think it's hard or bad if you sort of flirt and draw girls to you. I would take the advantage of trying to attract the best looking girls in the room to you. Take a new level on your game, and you get to enjoy the attention. Your girlfriend gets to feel special by having the guy all the girls want, but you focus on her so she knows who's important to you.

Nothing makes you look more badass in the club or at parties than having 3-4 different girls who look amazing all sitting at the table with you dying to have you.
Author:  TheLastWolf [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 4:22 pm ]
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Ugh, this whole thread reeks of selfishness. :?

Isn't the whole point of pickup to end up in long-term relationships with the woman of your dreams? Why would you want to waste your time on fast-food one-night-stands, when you've got a lifetime of steak, lobster and caviar right in front of you?
For me it isn't. Besides, I do visit the McDonalds voluntarily sometimes, even tho I can afford the lobster and steak. And it is really easy to call people selfish, in the end I can't think of a single person who isn't. In fact if my girl never finds out, what is the harm? Don't be too sensitive please, I like to hear some good discussion points.
Hmm... I dunno, totally disrespecting your relationship? If you don't give a fuck about that, then you don't care about your relationship at all.
Author:  RSDSkittles [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 4:27 pm ]
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Ugh, this whole thread reeks of selfishness. :?

Isn't the whole point of pickup to end up in long-term relationships with the woman of your dreams? Why would you want to waste your time on fast-food one-night-stands, when you've got a lifetime of steak, lobster and caviar right in front of you?
For me it isn't. Besides, I do visit the McDonalds voluntarily sometimes, even tho I can afford the lobster and steak. And it is really easy to call people selfish, in the end I can't think of a single person who isn't. In fact if my girl never finds out, what is the harm? Don't be too sensitive please, I like to hear some good discussion points.
Hmm... I dunno, totally disrespecting your relationship? If you don't give a fuck about that, then you don't care about your relationship at all.
If I didn't care, I wouldn't have asked the question in the opening post eh.
These are just some questions most of us will face during our life. I sense that this subject brings back a trauma or something for you, so you better stop reading this thread, cause youre being oversensitive and very judgemental.
Author:  TheLastWolf [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 4:29 pm ]
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For me it isn't. Besides, I do visit the McDonalds voluntarily sometimes, even tho I can afford the lobster and steak. And it is really easy to call people selfish, in the end I can't think of a single person who isn't. In fact if my girl never finds out, what is the harm? Don't be too sensitive please, I like to hear some good discussion points.
Hmm... I dunno, totally disrespecting your relationship? If you don't give a fuck about that, then you don't care about your relationship at all.
If I didn't care, I wouldn't have asked the question in the opening post eh.
These are just some questions most of us will face during our life. I sense that this subject brings back a trauma or something for you, so you better stop reading this thread, cause youre being oversensitive and very judgemental.
If you did care, you wouldnt be gaming other women while in a relationship
Author:  RSDSkittles [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 4:36 pm ]
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Yeah ok, you are absolutely right. I'll stop right away. In fact, I'll never go out again. I mean I can use that time for better things, like watching Sex and The City II with my gf, while massaging her feet.
Thanks for the advice bro, I'll let you know how it works out.
Author:  TheLastWolf [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 4:37 pm ]
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Yeah ok, you are absolutely right. I'll stop right away. In fact, I'll never go out again. I mean I can use that time for better things, like watching Sex and The City II with my gf, while massaging her feet.
Thanks for the advice bro, I'll let you know how it works out.
You're a fool.
Author:  Zephyrine [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 5:45 pm ]
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Flirting is fine. Truth be told, most women like it when their men flirt with other women. It makes them feel special because he has chosen them over the other options. And jealousy usually leads to great sex.

Kissing, dating, and fucking is a whole 'nother story. Blech.
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