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| Author: | Flynn [ Wed May 05, 2010 3:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Should I compete or play hard to get? |
This guy has been tryna get with this girl Im goin after for months and hes had no success.. yet. Recently I started tryna get with her and I dont want it to start looking like Im competing for her against him (even though in all honesty I think I would win). What should I do. Invite her to a lot of shit and exclude him. Or let him extra hard to get with her? |
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| Author: | GooseUK [ Wed May 05, 2010 11:28 am ] |
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The prize never competes. |
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| Author: | livininthemoment01 [ Tue May 11, 2010 5:20 am ] |
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make yourself the only viable option. make sure she notices you more than him. id say display massive social proof and preselection anytime you are around her, if possible. then she will probly just leave him standing there by himself, while she goes over to see what you are up to. 
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| Author: | Rap2010 [ Tue May 11, 2010 9:38 pm ] |
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You are the prize brother! Although you have to remember that you have to do the approaching. People need to see you as a high valued-person. Girls in general almost never approach. So with that you have to sell your self by turning on different attraction switches with the girl. That may sound contradicting because it feels like and it will feel like you are working hard for the group/girl if you are the prize. But you can't be the prize if you just sit in the dark corner not doing anything. You have to appear high-valued and if you have done that you have the power to chose who you want to be with. |
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