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| Author: | Flynn [ Wed May 05, 2010 3:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do I invite this girl to beach w/out looking needy? |
Couldnt really explain everything in just the title haha. Anyways yesterday my buddy Paul invited to the shore for the day saturday and he said I can bring this girl Im tryna get with (Bryce). So right now Im wondering how should I invite her. I have a few rough ideas in mind but you guys know what your doing so if you could leave some tips on how I could invite her without looking needy thad be great. Also she does come how can I find a moment to get with her if were on the boardwalk? Like I dont know how we can find any alone time ya know? Im new to the game but Im becoming a quick learner so dont worry about the basic shit haha. thanks guys :D |
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| Author: | omar973 [ Wed May 05, 2010 4:37 am ] |
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I'm new to PUA stuff as well, but common sense says you should call her and make it seem like you were going anyway and you're just trying to be nice by inviting her. That way it looks like you're going no matter what, you're just trying to be polite by inviting her, her being there has no bearing on your plans. At the same time, she will feel happy that you thought about her. If I was calling it would go down like this. girl: Hello? me: what up! I'm going to the beach with one of my friends tomorrow and it looks like we have room for one more person. Wanna come? girl: umm...i dunno me: well let me know tonight because we're leaving at 8 in morning. Talk to ya later! That way she has a deadline to decide and risks passing up a day with you instead of you looking like the one risking losing a day with her. |
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| Author: | Flynn [ Wed May 05, 2010 4:55 am ] |
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the thing is i invited her to something earlier this week and she couldnt go. and i definitly want her to go to the beach for obvious reasons. but one rule of pu is if you invite them and they cant accept for whatever reason then ignore them for a little while so they want you again. and right now if i invite her ill look needy ya know? but your advice is definitly good. i was proly gona talk to her at lunch and be like me: "yea paul invite me to the sure this weekend" her: "luckyyy!!!" me: " haha i know and he told me to bring someone else that hes cool with too so im tryna figure out who can go" this way she will offer herself most likely then i can say "are you busy at all" hopefully if she isnt we can arrange from there but well see how it turns out. ill report everything when its all said and done. |
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| Author: | chickentika [ Wed May 05, 2010 4:19 pm ] |
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flyn getting her to invite herself is good, but, this will only work if you have built massive amounts of attraction and she is basicaly looking for and excuse to spend time with you, it dosent sound like this is the case. what omar said is on the money,something like this is the best way you can invite her. as far as getting the Kclose, kino alot, if you havent yet, check out gamblers stuff, anyway, kino, built some sexual tension and youll know when the time is right to kiss her, gambler explains this really well so check him out. |
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| Author: | FBDragon [ Thu May 06, 2010 11:11 pm ] |
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I think Omar hit it right on too. As long as you don't seem needy in your approach, you'll be fine. Let her know that you're going to the beach AND you're going to have a good time whether she comes or not. I think you should also remember that IF she says no, don't try to force her into coming. |
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