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| Author: | figureitout [ Sun May 02, 2010 7:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | open a set then leave at a high note?/? |
so i've been going out solo a lot lately. and it is hard too hold a two set for long. does it sound like a good idea to leave the set after a minute or two on a high note and plan to reopen, or keep plowing? |
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| Author: | Habitual Jerk [ Sun May 02, 2010 7:58 am ] |
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It seems to me that you're thinking about it way too much bro. Please correct me if I'm wrong but the point is to meet interesting girls right? So if the conversation is going well then there's really no reason to leave. If she has the personality of Ben Stein after 6 months of hibernating then you should bail. My point is don't into the set with the mindset of: "how do i get her number?" Go into it with the mindset of: "will I like her?" "Is she good enough for me?" Not the other way around... goodluck! 1 |
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| Author: | figureitout [ Sun May 02, 2010 9:43 pm ] |
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no for sure you are right, and that is the mindset i have. Sometimes i'm into the girl and she is into me, but her girlfriend is sticking to her like glue and looks like she is getting bored and about to drag my girl away. how would you handle that? |
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| Author: | Habitual Jerk [ Mon May 03, 2010 12:01 am ] |
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There is actually a very simple solution that we sometimes forget about with everything going on around us. You need to become friends with the targets friends first and foremost. Give the friends more attention in the beginning then slowly start working on the target. The results: 1. Her friends won't cock block because they approve of you. 2. They may even help to convince her to hook up with you. 3. Even if her friends do get get bored they'll feel more comfortable leaving her alone with you. hope this helps... P.s... I'm not saying you absolutely shouldn't leave and come back later. It depends on the circumstances. If you see a lot of other girls you would like to talk to then by all means cut it on a high note and go meet some more girls. It all about YOU enjoying YOURSELF! But don't let her anxious friends be the reason you leave the set. |
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| Author: | livininthemoment01 [ Tue May 11, 2010 5:31 am ] |
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super long first conversation dosent =super good first impression. youre intro can be as long as it needs to be to make a good impression. once you hook them, you can leave. . them wanting more. its always better to leave them wanting more, than wanting less. . so feel free to leave for a minute or two, then when you re-approach they will feel like theyve recovered there lost treasure.! 
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| Author: | figureitout [ Tue May 11, 2010 6:05 am ] |
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that was put very well, and that is how i'm started to see it! |
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