ok so i met this girl last saturday at a club, hb7. we danced for a bit, very close, and then led her off the floor to a quieter location in the club where i gamed her for some time, total time being close to 45 mins.

she was into me, clearly more than i was into her. strangely, when i went for the number close at this point, she refused! i figured i mis-calibrated. anyways, she asked me to give her my number - so i said i know what that means, dont worry about it, it was nice meeting you, and was about to leave.

she then stops me, and pleads for like 5 mins to give her my number, asking why i wont, almost upset/sad that i would not. i figured this was a lost case and eventually i just decided to give the number anyways spent some more time with her, and didn't even think about her after that.

on wednesday, she sends me a text, i answered in an hour and she followed by "when is a good time to call you". bit surprised, but said i'll call her the following day.

i call her thursday and she picks up, mentioning she is with family and will call back later. she calls back in 2hrs and is super chatty. after about ~30 mins, i kind of cut the convo short and just let her go. at this time i also set up a meet on sunday, which she seemed excited about.

this is going to be the first meetup after the club, where we spent a total of about 1hr, and 30 mins on the phone.

ok here is where i need your advice guys: after meeting up, if i suggest a bounce to my place, is that pushing for too much on the first meet?
also, i feel that she is the type that will get attached easily. i am not looking for a relationship at this point. at what point during the interaction should i bring this up with her?
one more question, was she expecting an SNL and was that why she refused to give her number in the first place? she was with a friend so i had ruled out SNL, maybe that was a major mistake on my part.