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| Author: | round-2 [ Thu Apr 29, 2010 6:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | catching myself getting attached and feeling like an AFC |
long story short, i've slept with this girl twice in the last week and i tried to not get attached but its hard not to. she's hot, smart, fun to hang out with. anyways, when she's over, i can seduce her pretty easily. we had the most amazing sex and she says she just can't stop herself when we're laying in bed together. after the 2nd night, she revealed her plan that night was to come over, tease me then take off... after she says things like that, i figured it'd be no problem to ask her bluntly to come over and watch a movie with me or whatever, but i'm find that more difficult than i thought. she has legitimate excuses (paper due next morning). any ideas on how i can get her to find me even more irresistible so much that she puts me before her other priorities? |
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| Author: | chickentika [ Fri Apr 30, 2010 3:18 am ] |
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I dont think you ment to but you are coming of like a bit of a dick, 'any ideas on how i can get her to find me even more irresistible so much that she puts me before her other priorities?' see what i mean? As far as the rest of your post gos, its ok to develope feelings for somone, weather your a PUA or not your alowed to actualy have feelings towards the people you fuck.... |
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| Author: | suavaye` [ Fri Apr 30, 2010 5:30 am ] |
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i agree, having feelings for a girl isnt AFC, its human nature |
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| Author: | vibe112 [ Fri Apr 30, 2010 11:22 am ] |
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FREEZE OUT. Your getting needy and we know where that ends up. |
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| Author: | #1 Jish [ Fri Apr 30, 2010 1:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: catching myself getting attached and feeling like an AFC |
Quote: any ideas on how i can get her to find me even more irresistible so much that she puts me before her other priorities? |
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| Author: | round-2 [ Sun May 02, 2010 2:47 am ] |
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yeah, i apologize. i was hung over and wasn't thinking straight. i didn't word it like i should have. i'll try freeze out and let you guys know how it goes. i just dont want to come off as a man whore who's off to his next ticket, but maybe that's what it takes. |
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| Author: | round-2 [ Sun May 02, 2010 3:12 am ] |
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we got super wasted the other night and i had to take care of her. the next day she texted me saying i'm a great guy. we texted for a bit and i told her something dangerous i had to do at work. she said that sounds sexy etc. then, i rewarded her saying we should do something chill that night. she responded saying "okay. im going to pass out when i get home after work so ur going to have to try real hard to call me until i wake up." i texted her asking her how she was feeling later that day (considering she's hung over) and never got a text.... grrrrrrrrrrrr |
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| Author: | #1 Jish [ Sun May 02, 2010 6:53 am ] |
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Perhaps she was busy dunno, lots of guys have problems with girls not texting back and I have no idea why, but good work mate |
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| Author: | round-2 [ Sun May 02, 2010 4:11 pm ] |
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yeah, that's what i figured. but then i signed onto facebook that night and she was online lol i feel like i'm texting her first too much. she hasn't really texted me first in a while. |
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| Author: | #1 Jish [ Sun May 02, 2010 7:46 pm ] |
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yea i know alot of girls wait for the guy to call/text first because they think thats the way its "meant to be" ive seen girls be 100% obsessed with a guy yet they still wont text first and end up letting him slip away. I have no idea why they do it perhaps they like to feel wanted or like the power anyway not all girls do it.....enough from me cya |
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| Author: | round-2 [ Sun May 02, 2010 9:02 pm ] |
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thanks for the support jish! i like what you had to tell me. i'll play hard to get for the rest of the day and then text her tomorrow or so |
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| Author: | round-2 [ Mon May 03, 2010 2:14 am ] |
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asked her to join me for dinner but she said she already ate and said she had a stressful day. so frustrating... i feel like the more i pursue, the less i get back. |
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| Author: | Habitual Jerk [ Mon May 03, 2010 3:06 am ] |
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Quit bothering her. She was probably just kickin it with me  Seriously though, I wouldn't have texted her when she said you'd have to try real hard to wake her up. She would have been completely thrown off by not getting a call or text from you. Self control my friend... not calling for one day isn't enough. Wait a week or so. It'll feel like forever but she'll hit u up. |
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| Author: | Tony Stonem [ Mon May 03, 2010 4:38 am ] |
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It sounds like you have oneitis. You are too hung up over this one girl. The cure for oneitis is to go out and sarge as much as you can (while hopefully closing). Try fucking someone else, then see if you still have the same feelings for her. HOWEVER, if you are looking to date her/ be exclusive with her for whatever reason. Ignore my pervious advice, rather, continue to act like you don't care two shits about her. Give her one/two word answers to texts. Don't seem needy. etc. Good Luck! |
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| Author: | round-2 [ Tue May 04, 2010 3:28 am ] |
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i thought about what u guys had to say and u guys are right, i am bugging her. right now finals are starting and she even told me herself that she's super stressed. i just gotta stop being insecure and 2nd guessing everything. |
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