Hi!javascript:emoticon(':D') mPUA members. I am a RAFC from Boston, Massachusetts. I have gotten a couple of laysjavascript:emoticon(':twisted:') since i got into the game about 8 months ago, but i want a relationship with a quality women. the only thing stopping me from dedicating more time to PU is a deployment to iraq.
There is a girl i really like.javascript:emoticon(':shock:') she's an HB8.5 The thing i really like about her is her personality. She's an adventurous, goal driven sweetheart.
We were close friends in hs but i told her best friend her BF was cheating on her giving her every single detail (Sophomore year 05) thinking she could keep a secret and the next day the whole school knew about itjavascript:emoticon(':oops:') and i lost a lot of friends cuz of that.
I said some shit after that on myspace and really creeped the shit out of her... javascript:emoticon(':(')but when i got into the game a couple of month ago and started to see things for what they are; i tried starting convos with her but to no use.
I sent her a friends request on fb recently and she accepted it,javascript:emoticon(':D') but idk how to start a convo with after all the one-itisjavascript:emoticon(':shock:') stuff i said to her. It would be awesome if i could use her to get back in my old social circle. i'm not trying to get with her right now cuz i dont have time, but it would be nice to have her as a friend till i come back, and turn things around.
I used a fb opener when i sent her the friends request as a form of neg to calibrate for the request.
"you look like u use fb a ton. would you happen to know how to filter my messages cuz i keep getting spam from this weird lady asking me to donate money."
I thought about using another opener but i don't wanna go back in the seduction model.
I could try to dhv but that would come off as trying too hard too impress cuz i don't think she'll reply to my ct. I pimped out my fb and now i actually got girls adding me, but i'm lacking social proof in my pics.
*There are things i could use to my advantage. She's a very forgiving person, and i think she's over most of the drama i caused her.
Any ideas are more than welcomed.

I tried a similar strategy with a previous girl (HB8.0) i had creeped out back in my AFC days Jack "Bauer." i befriended her brother, through a friend at a BBQ when we went into his house, i ignored her. the next time i came in, i disarmed her mom and hung out with her bro and friends from her circle. the week after she was with some friends, so i talked to them and i said something to her at the endand when she replied i walked away. I left my bluetooth in her brothers room on purpose, so i could have an excuse to come in and talk to her the next morning. I knocked on the door at around 10:00am and she answered. I told her i was gon kill her bro cuz he wasn't picking up and that i left my bluetooth in his room and used a ftc and told her i had to go to work in few. she told me her bro was working (something i knew) and let me in. i grabbed my bluetooth that i hid behind his comp. On my way out i asked her how her night was and we ended up talking for about an hour... a couple of days later she was mine, of course behind her bro's back. It was an AFC-ish approach but it worked.
As far as one-itis, i'm well past that. my value is something i keep track of 24/7. The PUA's creed is something i live by.
I was contemplating the same idea with this girl. I could make it happen but if i have enough time. I moved around a lot when i was little, so making more friends, is a natural skill, i could use to my advantage.
I think my game is tight enough and there is enough social proof in my fb from ppl and girls writting on my wall that if i manage to hook her, i could take the convo where ever i want(':D')
Any suggestions, (':o') comments (':shock:') insults (':twisted:')