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Author:  Tal0n [ Tue Apr 13, 2010 6:13 am ]
Post subject:  Identifying the ONS
I'm wondering if anyone has some advice on identifying girls who are either looking for, or are more inclined towards, same-night-lays? How do you figure out which girl in the bar/club is the kind who would be interested in going home with someone that night?
Author:  KristallNachte [ Tue Apr 13, 2010 4:17 pm ]
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why not instead focus on identifying the kind of person that every girl wants to go home with that night, and adapt that to your needs?



what Captain Jack once said:
Girls go to clubs to get sex.


but that doesn't mean they'll accept anything.
Author:  Tal0n [ Tue Apr 13, 2010 4:41 pm ]
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Mm, true. But then I wonder how you figure which are the guys who are pulling regularly like that?

One of the things about a lot of the PUA systems is that they focus on K-closes and #-closes, etc, which lead to second encounters. And while I know that there are usually contingents for the same-night-lay scenario, perhaps you, or anyone else knows of a well-tested system specifically for the ONS and same-night-lay?

I'm comfortable with Day Two's and going for the f-close there, I just want to learn the method for pulling girls at will. It's always frustrated me that any reasonably attractive girl, if she wanted, could have sex within an hour of deciding so. Not the same for guys.

So, to sum up:

1) How do I identify the guys who pull same-nights regularly?
2) Are there any systems designed specifically for this?
3) And I still wonder if there is a way to identify girls who will be "easier" than others, the "fools mate," so to speak.
Author:  GreenieUK [ Tue Apr 13, 2010 4:58 pm ]
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Like Kristal said, you're thinking about this all wrong.

You need to be the guy that makes practically all girls they talk to want to go home with them on the same night; instead of looking for girls that look easy

And no, it's very rare that you can tell if a girl is out to go home with someone on the same night just by looking at them.

You need to play it so that when you're escalating with any girl, they want to go home with you that night, build up that much rapport n comfort that they see nothing wrong with headin back to your place for the night.

You'd be surprised with how many times you'll hear a girl say in the morning "I can't believe this just happened, we only met last night"

with regards to systems for ONS' & SNLs, it's just pretty much just normal game, except once you have your k-closes, keep escalating and comfort building. When a girl feels comfortable enough with you, she'll happily come back to your place.

Or, if that doesn't work...you could always introduce them to Sambuca

:?
Author:  Tal0n [ Tue Apr 13, 2010 5:05 pm ]
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Haha, I figured as much--sometimes it helps to just have others say it.

Well, I guess it's back to the ol' self-improvement. No shortcuts for me, darn...

:)

Thanks!
Author:  KristallNachte [ Tue Apr 13, 2010 8:36 pm ]
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Quote:
It's always frustrated me that any reasonably attractive girl, if she wanted, could have sex within an hour of deciding so.
this actually isn't true.

1. Girls want sex
2. Girls can't have sex with guys that have no game.
3. Few guys have game.
4. Due to points 2&3, girls are sexually frustrated.


don't trust me? ask BSB
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