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| Author: | Gawk [ Tue Apr 13, 2010 2:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Carefully trying to play my ex. long read |
Okay so this is what happened. I know my ex is going clubbing with her gf's. So I decide to go the same club. I know my ex will be on the dance floor for the whole night so I carefully avoid her, 'cause if she sees me, my plan won't work and this is also fairly risky. So I immediately start sarging nice looking girls in the club, and after my 2nd or 3rd attempt ( I need a girl who gives lots of IOI's, so I leave the sets early if they seem even slightly uninterested ), I see a set of two. A hb 8 along with an ok looking girl sitting alone. I look at hb 8 in the eye and she looks back. Just as I'm walking past them, I turn around and open: "Hey do I know you guys, you seem familiar" We talk for a while mainly focusing on the hb 8, but keeping the conversation interesting so her friend won't get bored and try to cock block me. After a while hb 8 gives me lots of IOI's, so I move on with my plan. I ask the girls to go dancing with me ( actually I ask for both of them ) but hb's friend says I should just go alone with her friend and she'll wait there, AWESOME! So I take hb's hand and lead the way, showing no signs of uncertainty. I immediately spot my ex + her friends on the dance floor, but they don't see me at this point which is good. I start dancing with hb 8 and she gives me lots of IOI's again, so I start getting more intimate and grope her -> she doesn't seem to mind. At this point the ex + her friends have noticed me and one of her friends taps my shoulder and says hello. I casually say hi, shrug it off, and she leaves. I start making out with hb 8 and dance some more. Ok, so hb 8's had enough of dancing so she suggest that we get back to her friend. I tell her that she should get back to her friend and I'll go say hi to a couple of friends. She says ok and asks if I'll come back for her after that. I answer yea. So she leaves and I go to my ex + 2 of her friends and immediately my ex's friend asks me who I'm with. I shrug it off, wink at her and tell her it's a secret. After this I casually start a conversation with my ex asking how their night has been. She seems pissed and completely ignores me. I put my hand gently on her shoulder and whisper, have a nice night. At this point, I'm not quite sure what to do, so I get back to the hb 8 and her friend. We chat some more and they want to have a smoke, so I tag along with them. They ask if I want one and I say I'm too athletic to smoke and wink, so they start asking about my hobbies and we chat some more. At this point my ex text's me saying she's sorry but she felt really bad when I was with that chick, but tells me not to mind or ask about it. OK. Now this is the part where I fuck the whole situation up. When my ex says she feels bad, I immediately become the biggest fucking AFC ever, I don't know why but it sucks. I tell her that I don't want to hurt her and that girls meaningless, just a substitute girl. She text me pissed asking wheter she was one too. I text her back saying she's irreplaceable. No messages from her after that. At this point hb 8 asks who I'm texting with and I just shrug it off saying: with a friend. Apparently I've been gaming her pretty well 'cause at this point, out of nowhere her friend asks if a one night stand is ok with me? hb 8 blushes and immediately says her friend is just joking etc. I realise that this was just I shit test, but I have no intention of sleeping with either of them, so I just shrug it off. I decide to leave the situation and tell them that I'm going to see my friends and don't look back at them. So at this point I get back to my ex and now she seems ok.I dance with her for a while and talk. She pretty much just shit tests me asking if I have a lot of "substitutes" and am I not afraid to hurt the girl I was with. I'm such an AFC at this point that it's embarrasing, really. I just literally tell her that she's more important to me than other girls and I don't care if she sees us. She still gives me lot's of IOI's when we're dancing, but I don't kiss her. I don't know why. So I tell her that I should go pick up my friend in a moment and she agrees with me. So we dance some more and she tells me that I should go pick up my friend and we should catch up again later. Okay so I completely blew the situation and spend the rest of the night gaming random chicks with a couple of kiss closes and a #-close. I also see lot's of random friends there, so I sarge the dance floor a bit with them and so on. Oppinions? Is this completely game over? Any ideas for a next step? notes. -My ex is still jealous/has feelings -Even though being a total AFC to my ex, I had lots of social proof that night. -She knows I'm seeing other girls |
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