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Author:  BombshellBrunette [ Fri Apr 09, 2010 10:19 pm ]
Post subject:  a flake who wants to UNFLAKE
I use to have oneitis on this guy. after learning PU, i froze him out for several months. we didn't talk until he started to talk to me on facebook chat. one night he text me on my cell and asked me to hangout. he said he was trying to get people to meet up at the bar. the next night I didnt hear from him so i texted him. he said he was "too tired to go out"

after this he would still message me on facebook chat so i told him to "fuck off" few days later i messaged him again and said i was chilled...

i think he only messages me on facebook chat since hes bored at work, but he always messages me everytime i'm online.
Quote:
we seriously need to do something when i get back from chicago
ive been feeling bad
i didnt respond and when i didnt respond he messaged asking me if i got the message...how should i have responded? when a guy flakes, should i agree to his frame and hangout with him? . if i dont accept he'll take it as an ego blow and he likely wont go for me anymore, right? :roll:
Author:  R. Swerve [ Sun Apr 11, 2010 8:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: a flake who wants to UNFLAKE
Quote:
"fuck off"
lol. Don't react emotionally to his flaking because you don't want to let him know that he can phase you and affect your emotions...but you still want to get the message across that his flaking is unacceptable, you want him to respect you. The best way to deal with bad behavior is to ignore it. It would have been better if you just froze him out again for awhile.

It's good that you didn't respond to his latest message initially, forcing him to chase you a little more.

Here's the current situation: He only "kind of" likes you. If you play too hard to get he'll give up, not because of a blow to his ego, but because he's not going to waste alot of time and energy chasing a girl that he only "kind of" likes. You should go out with him now.

Make sure he has a blast with you and don't give it up too soon.
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