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| Author: | merman107 [ Tue Apr 06, 2010 6:12 am ] |
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alright so a girl i was talking to class told me to sit next to her during next class. the next class i forgot what she looked like and guess what, i walked right past her and sat in another seat. is this a good example of playing hard to get or was it f-ing stupid. |
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| Author: | Dan Cooper [ Tue Apr 06, 2010 6:47 am ] |
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I don't think it would be considered an example of playing hard to get... playing hard to get is a conscious effort, but you just honestly forgot what she looked like... Now did you f up? I'm not really sure since I am new to PUA, but my intuition tells me as long as you are nice to her in the future, this could work in your favor... She gave you the IOI of asking you to sit with her... You kinda shrugged her off and either this will make her chase you a bit or it will make her back off (in which case you couldn't have been too interested anyways since you forgot what she looked like) I think if you act nice/politely to her sometime in the near future and she still gives you IOI's, then you have this girl good... And then you just have to decide if she is worth your interest |
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| Author: | Mask61636 [ Tue Apr 06, 2010 8:51 am ] |
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I believe you just unconciously DHVed yourself, now you know you walked right past her, meaning you remembered what she looked like after you made your mistake. Just sit next to her another day. Pick it up, explain that you didn't feel extremely social IF she asks why you didn't sit with her. Small mistake, cover it with a bandaid. Klay Mask |
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| Author: | Wulver [ Tue Apr 06, 2010 9:30 am ] |
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Sit down next to her and explain that you were having a shitty day the other week...move on quickly to something else. Recap: Dont be too interested...dont look like youre acting. Maintain your cool natural alpha gaze and remember to walk slow but with purpose. She digs you for sure. |
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| Author: | merman107 [ Tue Apr 06, 2010 3:43 pm ] |
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heres the full story: So i sat next to a girl in class and talked with her for the whole class which was 2 hours long. she seemed interested during our convos, and laughed a lot and kept looking at me throughout the entire lecture but when class ended, i asked her, do you want to be my study buddy? she said sure, but when i asked for her number she said just sit next to me in class. the next lecture, i didnt see her and walked past her. i think she called my name but i had my ipod on. i think she was offended because she left class early today. shes a senior in college and is in a sorority and about to graduate, idk what she wants by talking with me.... |
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| Author: | Mask61636 [ Wed Apr 07, 2010 8:12 am ] |
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She wants your nuts bro, that's what. She just didn't trust you enough for her to give you her number yet. |
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| Author: | NaturalPUA [ Wed Apr 07, 2010 9:07 am ] |
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Dude, well played. I agree, this was an unconcious or unplanned DHV. This could have increased the buying temperature. She di IOI you by inviting you to sit with her in the next class, remember though, this could have been a shit test to see if you are deperate/easy. By not sitting next to her you have proven that you are not. I do have one problem with the advice above. Never ever make yourself too easy. When she busts your balls for not sitting next to her, jokingly say something like... "Yeah but I didn't know if I wanted to be seen with you in public yet... People might have thought we are dating...". Smile at her, if she IOIs again, usually jokes back or she will punch you playfully on the arm or the like then you can SOI her. Never explain yourself though. Just say something like, "But now that I'm getting to know you better I think I wouldn't have minded". Oh and BTW, one of my favourites when a girl punches you on the arm jokingly is to say, "Stop hitting on me!!!", with a very serious face. They love it. But all in all, you forgetting was not a bad thing! It seriously can work in your favour. I am an asshole so if she asked why I didn't sit next to her I would say straight out that I had an awesome time with her but forgot how she looked. This is a BIG DHV. I mean, I see many women and therefore no particular women of beauty ever stands out. She needs to be more than a pretty face with a hot bod to get my attention. But if I play this I would apologise and say that now that I have gotten to know her, I feel like an ass. But that's me though |
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| Author: | merman107 [ Wed Apr 07, 2010 2:36 pm ] |
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since i ignored her kinda, i was planning on coming to class today and say, hey, i didnt see you on monday, did you come to class? when i see her. the thing is, should i come to class early so she sits next to me, or late so i can find her and sit next to her. early is probably the better decision right? |
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| Author: | NaturalPUA [ Wed Apr 07, 2010 3:29 pm ] |
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Definitely!!! |
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| Author: | merman107 [ Thu Apr 08, 2010 4:05 pm ] |
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she ended up not coming to class. i have a feeling she dropped the class cause she was really pissed off. should i end her a facebook message asking if she is in my class? |
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