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Author:  anthrohahacock [ Tue Mar 30, 2010 1:44 am ]
Post subject:  A Stripper gave me her number...wait, what?
I'm very much an AFC. Check out my previous posts, I have no idea what the fuck I'm doing. But somehow I got extremely lucky this past saturday. I'll try my best to make this short. Here goes.

My cousin & I decide to go to this strip club on two days ago(we'd been there only once before) and it was cool and all. I didn't have all that much money, so I wasn't throwing dollar bills everywhere like some people. About 40 min until the place closes, one of the girls comes up to me & my cousin. HB9 but i'd give her an 8 because she's a stripper lol. Great fucking body, blonde & she had these cute pigtail type things going one.

Anyway, she starts talking to my cousin until I point at her, then point at my lap, and on command she's on my lap, asking me for a dance. I change the subject, let her dance on me for a bit, chat her up, neg a bit (I called her "Princess Leia" because of the pigtails/buns or whatever she did with her hair) then I caved and got a dance with her. After the dance, she stayed on my lap as we just started talking. I swear, I wasn't doing any routines or anything, I just talked to her like a normal person. After 10 min or so, she asked if I had a phone & if she could give her my number. I asked if she was serious 3 times, to which she replied "yes" 3 times. She gave me a kiss on the lips, then brought me back to my cousin, kissed me (on the cheek) and that was that.

LOL TL;DR Whatever, I got a stripper's number, which is ridiculous but whatever. So...what's next? She said she'd call me & wanted to see me the next morning, but of course she didn't (because she's a stripper, and strippers are the flakiest people on earth). But yeah, what should I do? Call her? Give her shit about not sticking to her word? PUA's, help me out!
Author:  SpeXXX [ Tue Mar 30, 2010 2:34 am ]
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That is what it's called Natural game, my friend. and that's why I love it. You actually proved yourself that you have some game, and nice one I might say.
Anyway, what should you do? act like she's every other ordinary chick you'd pick up - call her just set up a day 2 and meet up maybe rent a movie or something, just keep your game congruent. There is no need of some special techniques to make her attracted to you, remember there was a reason she was attracted to YOU that other day.
Author:  Onoma [ Tue Mar 30, 2010 2:35 am ]
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First, ask yourself: Do you care? Would you want to date this chick, or fuck her knowing she could be really easy?

Second, I've gotten a stripper's number twice without really trying. The first time I got a lapdance, and she said if I came back again she'd give me her number. I did come back a few weeks later (not for her, I was just going through a strip club phase long before I'd even heard of this PUA stuff) and got another dance with her. Reminded her she'd promised her number and she gave it to me.

I very much got the feeling it was in case I wanted to do anything "on the side" with her.


The second time was a little more complicated. I was just going through a breakup, and was really desperate for any kind of attention. I ended up at the club in town which has a reputation for girls providing extra service, and saw this chick as I walked in. She seemed strung out, but was cute so to my grief addled mind she was perfect.

While dancing she offers a handjob, I request a blowjob and she rejects saying she doesn't do that even though most of the other girls would. She ends up trying to get me off through my pants, but that wasn't quite enough for me and eventually I just stop her and we finish up the time chatting a bit. We end up sitting at a table until close (not terribly long really, as I'd gotten there pretty late to start with) and it turned out she was also going through a bad breakup. We comforted each other, talked a bit and just kind of held each other for a while... then she wanted my number and gave me hers.

I texted her after I went outside, just said something about having enjoyed talking and never got a reply. A few days later I remembered her saying she liked to do dominatrix stuff, and while I think we did comfort each other I'm betting she also does dominatrix work on the side...

That said, I think listening to the dancers and treating them like a human will make them like you as a customer. They'll sit with you and talk more, and hang out when it's slow and, frankly, that can be a bit of an ego boost as well as a good chance to practice conversation skills with women. HOWEVER, I don't think anyone's going to give you their number unless you've run a solid game on them... unless they're going to charge you for getting together.
Author:  StreetLight [ Tue Mar 30, 2010 7:44 am ]
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..anthrohahacock, sweet man, congratulations, you just ran game without knowing it, and it's a good thing, remember its not rocket science man and women have been drowned to each other since the beginning of time (something that some guys don't really get, it's NATURAL, we wouldn't have been born otherwise), and you just hang with this girl like the guy you are, I bet if you ran routines it might even not work, you were a real person with her and that what did the trick here
and Onoma, I'm pretty sure the first number was just a way of bringing you over to the club again ... but maybe not..
Author:  Onoma [ Tue Mar 30, 2010 12:33 pm ]
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and Onoma, I'm pretty sure the first number was just a way of bringing you over to the club again ... but maybe not..
Possible, but my actual point is there's more chance she gave him a number to increase her business than because she was into him. I know strippers can be picked up, but their job is really to feign interest in you for cash.

Also, everything I've ever seen about picking up a stripper says the first rule is NEVER get a lapdance. The moment you do that you're just a customer to her.

Although, it would be interesting for OP to call and let us know what happens!
Author:  kasabi [ Tue Mar 30, 2010 4:22 pm ]
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Just call her, act like you know nothing, and ask her out. This is what you'd do with the 20 other numbers you got last weekend.

1. Usually . . . strippers don't date customers unless it's a sugar-daddy set-up.
2. Usually . . . strippers hand out numbers to increase business.

3. Regardless of what they do, girls who give out numbers give out a 100 a night.
4. The ones who don't give out a 100 a night won't GIVE it to you. You'd have to earn it.
Author:  stanlynn [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 5:05 pm ]
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Author:  charblad [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 6:22 pm ]
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1. Usually . . . strippers don't date customers unless it's a sugar-daddy set-up.
2. Usually . . . strippers hand out numbers to increase business.
glad someone had the decency to think realistically and not think this guys is a MPUA after 3 days of gaming. Strippers, coffee shop girls, waiters, car washers, this isn't pua, its business as usual, your their new customer and you are getting played.
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 8:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A Stripper gave me her number...wait, what?
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I'm very much an AFC. Check out my previous posts, I have no idea what the fuck I'm doing. But somehow I got extremely lucky this past saturday. I'll try my best to make this short. Here goes.

My cousin & I decide to go to this strip club on two days ago(we'd been there only once before) and it was cool and all. I didn't have all that much money, so I wasn't throwing dollar bills everywhere like some people. About 40 min until the place closes, one of the girls comes up to me & my cousin. HB9 but i'd give her an 8 because she's a stripper lol. Great fucking body, blonde & she had these cute pigtail type things going one.

Anyway, she starts talking to my cousin until I point at her, then point at my lap, and on command she's on my lap, asking me for a dance. I change the subject, let her dance on me for a bit, chat her up, neg a bit (I called her "Princess Leia" because of the pigtails/buns or whatever she did with her hair) then I caved and got a dance with her. After the dance, she stayed on my lap as we just started talking. I swear, I wasn't doing any routines or anything, I just talked to her like a normal person. After 10 min or so, she asked if I had a phone & if she could give her my number. I asked if she was serious 3 times, to which she replied "yes" 3 times. She gave me a kiss on the lips, then brought me back to my cousin, kissed me (on the cheek) and that was that.

LOL TL;DR Whatever, I got a stripper's number, which is ridiculous but whatever. So...what's next? She said she'd call me & wanted to see me the next morning, but of course she didn't (because she's a stripper, and strippers are the flakiest people on earth). But yeah, what should I do? Call her? Give her shit about not sticking to her word? PUA's, help me out!


I dated about 5 strippers, sometimes they will give you the number if they really like you, you made one mistake, that you were shocked and you ask for real 3 times, like she is better than you, forget about she is stripper, the most important game is DO NOT SPEND ANY PENNY ON HER, do not comply with her shit test, do not kiss her ass, do not game her on the looks, take her out of the saleswoman role state.
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