Hey everyone, I'm pretty new to this whole pick up community thing and I've been trying out some stuff. I've been browsing a lot of posts and can't really find anything for my situation. I've had 7 girlfriends in my 22 years, one very long term (a year and a half) and it ended about 6 months ago. I'm not hung up on it, it ended because it got absolutely horrible, I'm not hung up on one girl like some people, I don't really have any approach anxiety in me. I'm fine talking to girls. I just don't seem to get much attention from girls since i've been out of the relationship. I also have a tendancy to romanticise and put women on a pedestal as conquests etc.
I am sometimes full of confidence, sometimes quite shy, but my confidence is getting seriously damaged cause I haven't got a girl in a few months, and I can feel it in my head, I think "whats he got that I don't" kinda feelings and I really hate it. I'm just wondering what do I do, I try and just be myself, I'm a long haired, cool guy, I play in a rock band, am in 2nd year at University doing an awesome course, I'm just struggling with women! I want a girlfriend, I want long conversations into the night, I want someone to care for me, but you know I'm happy to fuck around until that comes. I just want to know what I should do, what I'm doing wrong, and if you think I should or shouldn't have problems with women?
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apologies if this comes across as a rant, I'd just like some advice and really appreciate it! Cheers!