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Author:  donkrx [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 8:03 pm ]
Post subject:  great practice situation, need pointers

Ok, background: I'm really just starting getting into the game ... I've always been fairly comfortable talking to a girl, but actually studying the game has taught me a lot about attraction and what I'm doing wrong. I know this is long but I would be very grateful if you read and provide some advice.

Basically, my roommate Jeremy has been hanging out with this girl (HB7.5) a lot - sometimes they come to our apartment, sometimes he goes to hers. I'm pretty sure they hang out on weekends most of the time. I have never hung out with this girl on weekends or outside of the apartment because her social circle is entirely different - she is a coxswain for the crew team with Jeremy. For reference our ages are all around 21-23.

Despite the situation with her & Jeremy, I've seen the way she looks at me and she's even kino'd me before so I have plenty of IOIs (lots actually). Jeremy has been able to get some kino involved but always through cocky-funny - with me, it was playful, and more "her idea" (a stronger IOI in my opinion). The fact that I don't give her a lot of attention has probably helped me thus far.

She's already interested, so that part is done, but the next steps are a little unclear for me. I'm looking to you guys just for some ideas and ways to approach the whole situation and take it to the next level. I am pretty natural with cocky-funny, if that is useful at all at this point.

This will be my first sarge since getting into the game.... so please advise! I really appreciate it. I am trying to learn more than anything (ie more than being successful here).


PS: since she is already interested, do I need to DHV at this point? Jeremy has much more social proof than I do, though.

Author:  KristallNachte [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 8:15 pm ]
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The real question here is: why are you trying to screw your roommate?

Author:  joeschmoe765 [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 8:46 pm ]
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Yea, no way this is going to fly with your roommate.

Author:  donkrx [ Tue Mar 30, 2010 5:13 am ]
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hmm.. ok maybe I should have clarified. This is just for practice. I don't have to do anything with this girl ultimately, I just want to see if I can successfully attract her to me.

Jeremy is just a roommate (i.e. not a friend) and in 2 months he will graduate college and leave. He can also be a douche often, and just as an example he sometimes puts us (roommates) down by saying that he's much better with girls (and no he doesnt say this around other girls, though either way he'd still be a douche).

He's hung out with this chick for months (6-8 months) and nothings happened. As far as I'm concerned, they're friends. This chick is giving me lots and lots of IOIs so I don't see why she isn't fair game after all this time.

I dont know. If you guys don't feel like supporting me on this, then I respect your morals, but it would be great to get some pointers.

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