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| Author: | akka [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 4:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | trying to set something up long distance |
this may seem oneitis but humor me on this one: a little background, ive been always flirting with this girl and i feel like she has potential. me and her both kind of broke up with our ex's at the same time and at first she had been talking to me alot and we started to kino ALOT - but sadly at the time i was dating my ex so i never went in for the kiss close. however, now im 2600 miles away in an internship in the other side of the country and single, but im getting back in about a month and half. okay so in the first month of out internship: she texts me and asks for me to call her later. so i call her after i work out and she talks about the bs her ex put her thru. so im there humoring her, and specifically negging her whenever possible but still trying to be assuring and shit. any ways she talk for about 2 hrs. so a few days goes by and we talk again for a couple of hours late at night. and this goes on for a week or two, then it stops*** we had a total of 3 or 4 late night convos. then i call her specifically on her birthday and she picks up and we talk for about half an hour but i was sure to cut it short because she hasn't tried to talk to me for a while. she then texts me a few days later saying that she was thinking about me. so i respond with a neg (maybe not a good dicision - but i was nervous!). she responds by telling me she will call me later that night. she doesn't end up calling so i decided 2 txt her the next day playfully asking about it. she doesnt respond. so a few days later i call her, at midnight her time, and she doesnt pick up or respond. so a week later i txt her something random about what flavor hookah to choose. and abracadabra she responds to a particular flavor. now i txt her back with a compliment and she responds, but not really building to the conversation. basically her response was your welcome. so i txt her back in between sets at the gym (so a good 8 minutes later) making fun of something and using some of her language. she responds and i ask her to rank my effort (implying both my ability to crack a joke in the language and my attempt to reach her). she responds positively this time and follows with saying that she's feeling depressed. i tell her my personal way of dealing with bs and then she responds with her friend are taking her out and trying to make her feel better. (notice she makes no attempt at revealing the gender of the friend) but she ends by asking me my plans 4 the weekend. i respond but without asking a question. she doesn't respond and i havn't heard from her in about 3 or 4 days. God i hate txting, phone conversations are alot less krapier, face to face is ideal. but is there anyway of saving this one at all? i feel like we had a buncha 'moments' before, but alot of them over the phone or while i was still kinda dating my ex. let me know if any one of you can come up with anything at all. thanks alot guys |
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