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| Author: | paladien [ Mon Mar 22, 2010 7:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What are girls like when they have just LJBF'd their LTR BF? |
What are girls like when they just get out of a relationship? My girlfriend broke up with me, I got LJBF'd. This is how it went: - Month of arguing a lot. (she wanted me to care more) - She went on a weekend-trip in that month with a bunch of other guys, without letting hear something from her. - I got mad, told her I wanted to break up. - Next day she said she wanted to break up as well - Day after we had "a break" - That same night, she wanted me back. I was partying. - The next day there was a party, I behaved very AFC. I wanted her back she was ignoring me. - That night it was like there was a wall around her, at the end of the night the wall kind of broke down and she wanted to be with me again. - That next day she called me crying she had missed me and wanted things to be back how they were, I was willing to take her back without a doubt! I was very easy, I was laughing everything off and told her everything was gonna be okay. (this call was on a Sunday) We arranged a date for the next Wednesday. It was the soonest we could see each other again. - Then I didn't hear anything from her AGAIN. My gut said something was wrong again. I called her Tuesday night, she was going out with her sluttish female friends. While I called her she tried to cut me off. She was like: ok ok, ok i gotta go bye. - The next morning I called her again, to set the time we were supposed to have a date. She went like: "Do you wanna know if I made up my mind yet?" (she was talking about if she wanted me back or not I was like "yeah, of course. Tell me" She went like: "I'll talk about it when we meet" (like she was in control.) Then I went to her house, and I got LJBF'd. Some quotes from her when she broke up: "She was not in love with me anymore" "She did not want to be in a relationship, at least not with me" Now, I want her back but I am really afraid she might have slept with someone else. What are girls like when they have just LJBF'd their boyfriend for almost 3 years? How long does it take for them to have sex with someone else? What is she probably doing right now? |
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| Author: | StreetLight [ Mon Mar 22, 2010 7:17 pm ] |
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best thing is to let her go, at least for a while, being needy won't help, tell her you understand (even if you don't, and youre going crazy in youre head) and let her be... and you move on, at least for a while if she'll see youre not needy she might come back, keep in contact be a friend (but not a "FRIEND ZONE" friend) and bad news, usually it takes girls less time to start having sex after a break up then guys, but it changes... good luck, hope it will work well, remember, be understanding and mature |
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| Author: | paladien [ Mon Mar 22, 2010 9:07 pm ] |
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Thank you Streetlight. I kinda broke down just yet. She also went out with her slutty friends as I said the saturday after we broke up. Immediately after she broke up with me on wednesday I broke all contact. I suspect she has had sex the Saturday night she went out with her slutty friends. I broke down when I thought of it. It all makes sense. help me how to deal with this. I really can not stand the thought of her being someone's slut. Which I strongly feel she has been. What do I do? I wanna move on but I can't I just can't. |
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| Author: | StreetLight [ Tue Mar 23, 2010 5:20 am ] |
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just move on.. go approach other girls, be social do all the things you couldnt do without her!!!! it will take time to recover but it's perfectly natural, be a man, go live youre life |
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