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Author:  Snirz [ Sat Mar 20, 2010 3:15 pm ]
Post subject:  set a date..she:"it feels like you are doing me a favor
wow, such a wierd situation.
i talked with an HB yesterday in my social circle at MSN Messanger, her status was :"who want to come with me to X movie"...
we were talking for a while and then i said :" you kow what...i will go with you to X movie. but promise me that you wo'nt talk at the movie, or you'll get punished!"
she:" there are thing that i can't promise..(:"
today i sent a message in MSN again:

me:" hey dirty girl, when we go ?"
she:"to..?"
me:"X movie"
she:"oh you were serious...?"
me:"mm yeah, kind of serious"
she:" what do you mean kind of?" and i dont care when"
me:"ok i will tell you when tomorow"
she:" snir(my name), don't be an asshole. if you don't want to go you dont have to."
me:" oh yeah it will be shame to hang out with you in public haha :) "
she:" don't start with me."
me:" damn what is going on with you? i DO want to go to this movie"
she:"but it feels like you are doing me a favor"
me:"so it should feel like a nice hang out with a good friend"

and then she transitioned the conversation to talking about school.
but i didnt give up, and we will have a date tommorow's night. is it too fast to go for the KC?
Author:  Mister Boss [ Sat Mar 20, 2010 10:32 pm ]
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Let me answer your last question: It's never too early to go for a k-close! Escalate until rejection.

Let me illustrate. This happened to me a few weeks ago: I decided to go in for the kiss after talking for about 3 minutes to a girl. I did a k-close routine, went in for the kiss, we touched lips.... but, she immediately pulled her head back the moment we touched. She didn't expect me to kiss her this early AT ALL. I was being calm about it though. I dropped all the sexual stuff and started talking about really boring stuff (freeze out). 10 minutes later, she couldn't control herself anymore and jumped me. Voila!
Author:  Marc [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 1:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: set a date..she:"it feels like you are doing me a f
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wow, such a wierd situation.
i talked with an HB yesterday in my social circle at MSN Messanger, her status was :"who want to come with me to X movie"...
we were talking for a while and then i said :" you kow what...i will go with you to X movie. but promise me that you wo'nt talk at the movie, or you'll get punished!"
she:" there are thing that i can't promise..(:"
today i sent a message in MSN again:

me:" hey dirty girl, when we go ?"
she:"to..?"
me:"X movie"
she:"oh you were serious...?"
me:"mm yeah, kind of serious"
she:" what do you mean kind of?" and i dont care when"
me:"ok i will tell you when tomorow"
she:" snir(my name), don't be an asshole. if you don't want to go you dont have to."
me:" oh yeah it will be shame to hang out with you in public haha :) "
she:" don't start with me."
me:" damn what is going on with you? i DO want to go to this movie"
she:"but it feels like you are doing me a favor"
me:"so it should feel like a nice hang out with a good friend"

and then she transitioned the conversation to talking about school.
but i didnt give up, and we will have a date tommorow's night. is it too fast to go for the KC?
See how the date goes. You'd know during the date whether there is a K-close or not. And no its not too early but if you are not sure then dont go for it since she is in your social circle, someone you'd see everyday.
Author:  SpeXXX [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 3:21 am ]
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I wouldn't go with her for couple reasons:

1. She is in your social circle. any fuck-up and it will be totally awkward for you two to meet inside your social circle.
2. From the vibe in her replies she sees both of you as friends, and you are coming from the friend zone, not as a potential for something.
3. She's looking for a FRIEND to go with her. you obviously want something more (see reason 1).
Author:  Marc [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 3:36 am ]
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I wouldn't go with her for couple reasons:

1. She is in your social circle. any fuck-up and it will be totally awkward for you two to meet inside your social circle.
2. From the vibe in her replies she sees both of you as friends, and you are coming from the friend zone, not as a potential for something.
3. She's looking for a FRIEND to go with her. you obviously want something more (see reason 1).
I See where your coming from, but I'd disagree with your advise on not going. He has more to lose than to gain by not going. I'd say Go have fun, dont worry about negs, or being Cocky & Funny, or K-close or F-closes. Just learn to be surrounded by women

Also contrary to the belief in the PUA Community I think there is NOTHING WRONG IN BEING IN THE LJBF Zone. I look at that as, being in the inner circle and making her comfortable. And then next comes the physical escalation and sexual tension to turn her on and create a LJBF to a Potential Friends with Benefits or a LTR. I speak from experience but again guys in the community who dread LJBF zone probably know something I dont.
Author:  SpeXXX [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 4:11 am ]
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I See where your coming from, but I'd disagree with your advise on not going. He has more to lose than to gain by not going. I'd say Go have fun, dont worry about negs, or being Cocky & Funny, or K-close or F-closes. Just learn to be surrounded by women

Also contrary to the belief in the PUA Community I think there is NOTHING WRONG IN BEING IN THE LJBF Zone. I look at that as, being in the inner circle and making her comfortable. And then next comes the physical escalation and sexual tension to turn her on and create a LJBF to a Potential Friends with Benefits or a LTR. I speak from experience but again guys in the community who dread LJBF zone probably know something I dont.
Of course he should go if he wants to have fun but from looking at the way he's preparing himself, calling it a date in such a formal way, and already thinking about k-close. I mean its not a bad thing to do, but I personally wouldn't risk gaming a girl when it could hurt my social circle status. Aren't there enough girls to game?

As for the last paragraph you wrote, I think its really individual, depends on how big is your social circle and how well you are friends with the girl. If you guys are like close BFF then it would be damn hard to an impossible way to break it, but if you guys are not that close in the social circle, then it could play to your advantage that she sees you as a potential male and from there to escalate. It's all individually.
Author:  Snirz [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 1:00 pm ]
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Quote:
I wouldn't go with her for couple reasons:

1. She is in your social circle. any fuck-up and it will be totally awkward for you two to meet inside your social circle.
2. From the vibe in her replies she sees both of you as friends, and you are coming from the friend zone, not as a potential for something.
3. She's looking for a FRIEND to go with her. you obviously want something more (see reason 1).
i was thinking about that, but it seems that she is very sexual and playful with me. and ofcurse i can try to DHV myself and create more attraction, altough i think there is attraction.
Author:  Marc [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 4:37 pm ]
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I was thinking about that, but it seems that she is very sexual and playful with me. and ofcurse i can try to DHV myself and create more attraction, altough i think there is attraction.



If she is sexual and Playful you dont need to create more attraction persay. Have to thought of seducing may be ! lol !


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Of course he should go if he wants to have fun but from looking at the way he's preparing himself, calling it a date in such a formal way, and already thinking about k-close. I mean its not a bad thing to do, but I personally wouldn't risk gaming a girl when it could hurt my social circle status. Aren't there enough girls to game?


I get what you mean about the social circle, an unless you are confident that you can pull it off and not leave things awkward then you should go for it. Also depends on how confident you are with your game i.e. no buyer's remorse, no awkwardness, setting expectations, also how sake the girl is... lol !!

As for the OP I dont think his game is at a level that he can close and hence He should stick to the advise of Gooing and having fun but not trying shit unless there is HIGH BUYING TEMP.
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