If you like wearing sweater vest, I don't why you have to change that for some jerks.

You can wear them with more style like this :


Also when you wear something, be proud!! If you don't feel confortable when you walk, people will see that. Even if you wear the stupidiest thing ever, if you walk with no shame and a big smile, no one will comments you.

Work on your inner game, it will helps you have a good vibe arround you.

Sweaterwest sounds toolish. Sorry, but it's the truth. Get in the gym and lift some heavy weights and wear t-shirts, shirts and jeans.

I think you need to toughen up.

Maybe don't dress the way your dressing? Try just a long sleeve and jeans like most normal people lol. I used to wear tight "flashy" muscle shirts all the time and I had a gay image so to speak, although girls told me the second they talked to me it was obvious I wasn't because of the way I presented myself. So try just normal cloths you see all your guy friends with girlfriends wear.

Read "the game" from styles he didn't start peacocking till his game was quite good, I'm assuming that yours is not quite as developed.

I agree that you should hit the gym. Not so much to change your physique though, but to change how you feel about yourself. I've recently started working out again, and although the visible differences are minimal, I've felt an almost immediate gain in confidence.

And that's what it's about; confidence. It's very little to do with what you wear, it's how you pull it off. If you're even slightly unsure about yourself, people will pick up on it instantly.

Work on your inner game and getting a strong frame, and rock those sweater vests.

~Deebo