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| Author: | PUAdave [ Tue Mar 16, 2010 2:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Kasabi |
You’ve been such a help to me man, I really trust and appreciate your advice and I'd appreciate your help on another situation I have coming up when you have the time, it's not really a rush, this one because it seems more like a waiting game. There is another girl that really is a 10 too & and also a good friend. She actually says im her best friend. About a year ago when I was far less advanced than I even am now we fooled around. Looking back I can see everything I did wrong at the time. Didn’t see it then but basically she had been single a couple months at the time and was in boyfriend hunting mode. It wasn't even in my reality at the time I could get a girl like this. She was talking to another guy at the time who is her current BF, and looking back she gave me the chance before she even went out on a date with him. Basically one night she dragged me to bed after we had been drinking we messed around the next morning sober. Anyway that next week I turned into a total needy chump. I’d never got a number of a girl this hot at the time much less touched one & us having this connection anyway from being friends it was just a terrible combination for needyness that I reaked of and that sent her running to the other guy in like 3 days, weirded out. I was bitter as hell cause I got taken on an emotional rollercoster in 3 das and thought she was just mean and fucking with me for her kicks at the time and it really damaged our friendship for months because I was so stupid. Infact she started dating him and we didn’t talk for a couple months or hang out much for months. In that time I got a lot better with women and consistently got dates and some hook ups although no chick of her caliber but they have started to come closer now and the one your helping me with is. I have pretty much changed in a big way from where I was a year ago, and when we did start hanging out again a couple months ago she commented on how different I was and noticed it immediately. She could tell because I picked up on all the subtle flirty eye things she did and flirted them right back at her i had no clue on a year back. Anyway she still had the boyfriend I drove her to but the last couple months we really became close again. She’s flirty, but was moreso when we first started hanging out heavily again 2-3 months ago, kind of declined a bit (i guess to get me back in the fold at the start), but it was never enough I felt like I could have made a move and her BF is so jealous he montitored everything she did anyway and had certain guy friends she wasnt allowed to hang with, but somehow never saw me as a threat, so she either lied to him about me or he knows im one that she close enough to not to push her on. There was already problems between her an the BF ive heard about a lot more recently where as at the start I always got the rosey story about how great he was, how big his cock was etc. even though now I hear he is a 2 min man from another friend of hers haha. Anyway he's moved away for good as of this week and they are going to try to "make it work", but "she doesnt know", he wants her to move accross the county with him and shes pissed he's left her. Basically sounds like the relationship is on its last leg. I know ill be spending more time with her cause if nothing else Im about the only vehical of fun she has left, as she allienated some of he other friends or he cut her off from them. You got any advice or what I should expect or how I should proceed. I really feel like she is keeping me close and has been the last couple months as the "back up guy" for when he left this week and "if or when" she breaks up. Maybe BF material but certainly as the "fun" guy that offers milk you aways talked about. |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Wed Mar 17, 2010 1:59 am ] |
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Make up your damn mind! Both these girls had and have their legs split up in air for you. Just take a sniff . . . it's been there all along. Just make up your mind and hit your game! Don't just fall back to thinking that you will go after one or the other because you have a "better chance" -this is the mindset of a clueless AFC. You can have either of these girls. Just grab some balls and rock on . . . |
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| Author: | PUAdave [ Fri Mar 19, 2010 6:25 am ] |
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Yeah if I do get a chance to choose thats going to be hard. I have an amazing friendship im worried about screwing up too but it could be real special with this girl. How long do you think I should give it Kasabi? You always hear about the rebound guy and she was pretty depressed earlier this week about him leaving, but from what she told me turned into anger for him leaving her and moving away. Said stuff like we are going to try to make it work but I dont think it will. Just feels weird if I were to try to jump her bones right now. I took her out st pattys day to cheer her up and showed her a good time but I got nothing as far as a sign to push it forward in that way. How long you think before they start coming. I'm very cognisant and sense her getting jealous of my time. She wanted me to be with her all weekend and I got plans with the other girl, she said something like no, your mine joking but with a hint of serious and was like dont forget me but Im defiently going out with the other girl. She's also very aware of he other girl cause of course I told her. I was showing her some text on my phone and her and that girls names were just covered the screen above everyone and she said at least im #2. You think knowing the other girl could get me might make her act sooner or make herself available. Kind of thinking date the other girl and see where it goes and give her some time, or should I just strike now if i realy like this girl before her and the boyfriend could mend it cause there is a chance she could move out there with him but I think its very slim at this point, or is that pretty much done. |
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