She allowed me to be all over her. I thought she liked me. I kissed her and she was on my lap.

I guess in my own mind the best thing to do is to is pretend like I dont' care. Be a gentleman about it

Sure maybe I messaged her to soon

You could have mis calliberated your kino, so although it was fun then she could be afraid that meeting you could again lead to physical. What kind of emotional investment does she has in you?
I'd recommend

Well I asked her to kiss me and she said no. So it's kind of like expected that we kiss next time we go out

Emotional Investment in its simplest explanation is when a girl is sharing her thoughts/emotions/passions/feelings with you. She is letting you in her IN her life. It could evry well be secrets, desires, fantasies etc.. A Strong Bonding/connection

Progessivley got better with this girl over 3 weeks. We go out with friends she is a friend of a friend. She keeps acting like she likes me. Then she says" I really like you". So I say do you want to go on a date with me? She responds with yea lets go to disneyland. I'm like well its kind of expensive and a full day, lets try coffee first. She's like OK. Then like I ask her to kiss me later and she says no. But then she gets on my lap in the front seat of the car. I start kissing her hand and stuff. Then we drop all the girls off at there house. I facebook message her asking for her number when I got home because I forgot to ask for it. She replys 15 hours later. "Magnum45, I think you are so sweet as a friend, but as far as dating goes, I'm just not interested at this point in time in my life".

So I'm like WTF. Like this girl was sending me IOI's like crazy. She allowed me to be all over her. I thought she liked me. I kissed her and she was on my lap. Then it's like WTF. She tells me this. Sure maybe I messaged her to soon to ask for her number but I wasn't planning on calling her. I just forgot to get her number at the bar. WTF. She must have told herself something about me in her mind to lose interest. WTF is that shit. Seriously.

Now my question. I'm slowly calming down, and realizing I didn't care about the bitch to begin with. Now what is my course of action. Remove her from friends. Pretend to be ok with this. Bitch at her for sending me mixed signals.... WTF do I do.

I guess in my own mind the best thing to do is to is pretend like I dont' care. Be a gentleman about it. I'm so pissed right now, but as the mintues pass I'm calming and caring less. I won't probably care tommorrow morning. This Fucking sucks.

WTF did i do wrong. Did I seriously fuck up the DATE just because I faceebook messaged her too soon? She was so easy going. WTF.

Your first problem was when she asked you on fun date to disney land you DLV yourself by saying it was expensive, it made you look poor and her feel cheap. Secondly you made her feel like ass by saying you didn't want to spend a full day with her. She thought you were expecting her to be a easy, cheap screw... and it messed whatever game you had with her. The only reason I say that is because it seems like you had a little going before the date.

Sorry bro, but you just need to AMOG and leave her alone.

you told her how girls never want more from you then just being friends?... are you a MORON!!!

Another way to avoid looking cheap and her feeling like she's not worth the full day is to let her know you have other stuff going on but you really want to see her and you just have time for coffee. This way you add value b/c you're busy and she feels improtant b/c you fit her in.