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Author:  phenom833 [ Fri Mar 12, 2010 2:26 am ]
Post subject:  Girl wont text me back
alright i tried to text this girl she wont text me back i said " hey ( her name)" i kinda like this girl what should i do?
Author:  Carlos_Eff [ Fri Mar 12, 2010 2:35 am ]
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stop. you've got oneitis.

text another girl and leave the current one to the side. after a few days if she hasnt even tried getting in contact with you, call her. no response, no call back, END IT. her loss,
Author:  Kalel [ Fri Mar 12, 2010 8:55 am ]
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Well trying to force a connection when the woman chooses not to reciprocate is always a bad idea. It makes you seem needy, clingy, and obsessive.
That being said, I doubt if text messages are your only way of communicating with this woman, if you are invested in her as you seem. You must see her in person sometime, just be patient and talk to her then, but be cool about it and don't mention the text message. Feel her out. If she seems interested, pursue. Otherwise, let it go and move on.
Author:  phenom833 [ Sat Mar 13, 2010 5:25 pm ]
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really the only time i see her in person is at school
Author:  Turn Up the Night [ Sat Mar 13, 2010 5:30 pm ]
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Then talk to her in school. Simples.

For the record I actually try and avoid using messenger or texts to try and seduce a girl, I prefer to look into her eyes and talk to her in person. I think those methods are too mechanical. I'm only interested in using them if I'm dating her.
Author:  phenom833 [ Sat Mar 13, 2010 10:57 pm ]
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i kinda dont know what to say when i see her at school thats why i wanted to text her
Author:  Carlos_Eff [ Sun Mar 14, 2010 12:16 am ]
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a physical relationship relying mainly on just texting and instant messaging is a lot harder than just simply talking to her. Texts should be used as a way to extend you face to face conversations.
Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Sun Mar 14, 2010 2:36 am ]
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Texts can build comfort.


But never progress an interaction

Talk to her at school, but ALWAYS

and I repeat always, show a willingness to walk away.

Good Luck
Author:  phenom833 [ Sun Mar 14, 2010 3:11 pm ]
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what do you mean by that
Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Sun Mar 14, 2010 7:23 pm ]
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What I mean by that, is texts are fun, and a good way to build solid frame. However, they are not reliable, and should never be used to progress an interaction, and what that means, is you should never act on, or try to create a meet up via text or facebook chat, and you should never try to seduce on text.

It's all fluff essentially, and text game BREEDS flaking.

So, talk to her at school.
Author:  M.Jesus [ Sun Mar 14, 2010 7:41 pm ]
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Phenom, if I may ask (and don't take this personally) how much are you involved in the game?
To me it seems like there are a couple of issues here:
a) You have oneitis (if you don't know what it is, look it up)
b) my guess si you haven't really studied any PUA material, before you come to this forum you should have atleast a book or two under your belt, to understand the basics and jargon we use around here
c) you need to work on your inner game, there is ALWAYS something to talk about with a girl you like :D

Cheers
Jesus
Author:  The Willy Wonka [ Mon Mar 15, 2010 5:03 am ]
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If you see her at school and don't talk to her when you see her, than trying to text her to communicate seems a bit odd. Talk to her at school more. Smile and be engaging.
Author:  phenom833 [ Tue Mar 16, 2010 9:41 pm ]
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yeah i know there is stuff to talk about with the girl you like but when i start talking to her i get nervous then forget what to say
Author:  Sappa [ Tue Mar 16, 2010 10:11 pm ]
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Then don't try to memorize everything your going to say... can't forget if you don't try and memorize. if you end up trying to memorize EVERYTHING your going to say usually you screw up because she says something you din't prep for, especially if your new. only thing you need to think about is how your opener is going to play out and some questions you can ask her.
Author:  phenom833 [ Wed Mar 17, 2010 8:56 pm ]
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Then don't try to memorize everything your going to say... can't forget if you don't try and memorize. if you end up trying to memorize EVERYTHING your going to say usually you screw up because she says something you din't prep for, especially if your new. only thing you need to think about is how your opener is going to play out and some questions you can ask her.
so what are some good questions to ask
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