So I go to a bar with 5 HOT girlfriends. Lets judge them. Kate is 19 has long red hair, frekles, tan skin, bright green eyes, and a killer smile. Pluse she has a 4.0 GPA and has Zero baggage. I'm in love with her so I call her a 10. Then you got this 22 year old pale skin, red lip, black hair, hazel eyes, mouse girl who used to be fat but now is like a solid 8. Then 3 blondes ranging from 6,7,8.
We are at this bar. So many dudes are coming around buying drinks for the girls. I have to fight them away on the dance floor. I get free drinks too. Guys swaming like bees.
ANOTHER night I go out with my girlfriend who doesn't use any makeup and doesn't own a pair of colthes other than brown and grey colors. She is cute (6), french, and shakes her ass all the time. But she's got no color, no flame, no attraction. No one even looks at her. She is also always willing to hang out with me, but she will never let me sleep with her.
the 10(kate) wont let me sleep with her either, but the 10 (kate) doesn't do shit for me, and The pale 8 wont even return my messages sometimes. The hotter they are the less they have to work. They become selfish bitches.
What does it entail hanging out with selfish bitches?
You only do what they want to do.
You always go.
You never ask for anything.
Does it suck. No it doesn't suck. Actually it's fine, and a lot of fun. Plus they tell me exactly how they want me to treat them. They are my friends with no benefits. I am frustrated a lot because I get horney, but who doesn't. At the same time I am being trained to be the perfect man by beautiful attractive women. But, sometimes I wonder if just being a PUA and using some game on them will help me. I want to sleep with the red head 10 so bad. So unbeleavbily bad. She is just a friend.
She knows I want to sleep with her. She put up the guard against me, but she still wants to hang out with me, but she is very careful around me. Maybe I am coming on to strong. That would explain the one-itis. I'll have to move on. It's so painful to move on. Maybe I should express my love to her before moving on... Probably not. The best thing for me to do is to go after another women. When I do that there is no turning back. If I start to sleep with kate's friends she will never sleep with me. I just wish I could come from a different angle. If I wasn't so fucking horney all the time it wouldn't be a problem. The only thing I want to do is sleep with her and she knows it. I of course love her unconditionally, but at the same time, I am trying to prepare myself to emotionally disconnect because of the precieved LGBF for life persona.
I went through this shit with a girl in my past named tatiana. Tatiana still talks to me, and we made out once. I lost intrest in her after I traveled out of the country for 3 weeks. I get so focused on the girls good qualities that I imagine the girl being perfect for me without really knowing her. I lose sight of reality. It gets out of hand and they call it one-itis.
I'm so in love with the new redhead 10. I thought to much about our future. She's so young she doesn't know whats going on. I have every possible chance to get with her, but I don't know how to act around her. I know she wants to be protected and feel safe. She is extremely conservative. I know she likes military guys like her father. Guys who are big dick heads. Who are super selfish and uncompromising. She wants me to demand demand demand, reassure, demand demand demand. But I don't know how to demand anything. I ask her and she always does things for me. But when it comes to personal things outside of school work she flakes on me.
We are ready to be in a relationship. But she is scared to "get baggage" if I don't work out. I am told to take it slow, but I am afraid she will find another guy in the meantime. I don't know.
I feel like I should risk it all. But I know that expressing my love to her will only pile up the brick walls. She stays so distant from me, and so guarded. Maybe I could just break through them grab her by the shoulders and stare in her eyes and say I love you. But we have already said that to each other, i think she ment it as friends. So, my only option is to play it cool for a long ass time. Risk her losing me to another man, and trying to be there to keep it from happening. Until when though... until what time will I get to be with Kate.
This is my dilimea guys. I don't know WTF to do.
I already know most of you will say forget about her move on, there are plenty of fish in the see. And you are right. But how many of you know a solid 8 with a tyte almost virgin body, and an innoncents that penetrates the aura of her surroundings. Her goodness rubs off on me like hot butter on white steamy rice.
After that being said... still think I should find another girl?
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). This is a PUA ploy if you want Kate to be intrested in you. Kate will notice how you are with Natalie and hopefully become a little jealous, maybe to the point where she might make small advances on you. Just make sure you ignore Kate (besides wishing her Happy Birthday and stuff) and dont pay her any mind when she makes small talk with you.