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| Author: | italiasfinest914 [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 4:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | I'm REALLY REALLY CONFUSED with this girl i need your advice |
PLEASE READ ITS A WEIRD STORY ok so the story is i met this girl a couple months ago we chilled exchanged numbers but i didnt think much of it a couple of weeks later we chilled agian with a mutual friend after that she started texting me alot almost evryday she would geupset if i dint return her texts she would always ask if i think shes pretty.. these are all basic obvious signs that shes into me..oh and i would always end conmversations first to look busy then we hung out agian another time where we really were flirting and got close but didnt kiss cuz other friends were there so it was awkward so after that she kepts texting me everyday always asking me to csall her until evenualy we huing out at my house and i kissed her bu she wouldnt open up her mouth she was only letting me kiss her so we kissed a couple of times... but she seemed sad she was just laying on me with her eyes closed and wasnt really ina sexual mood lol so idint try to keep kissing her..she left shortly after so heres the confusing part she texts me after saying sorry if she acted weird she didnt want to get attached and get hurt like she did in the past so i was like ok fine..and the same thing happens she hit s me up all the time we eventually chill again but agen she semms depressed so i got very upset at why she wasnt leetiing me make out so whats the deal its very obvious she likes me shes old me but shes taking things veryy vberyy slow to the pint where she seems uninterested could this have something to do with her getting very hurt in the past bya guy what gives???? |
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| Author: | Pimpin aint easy [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 4:39 am ] |
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Honestly dude i would say to run in the other direction. My psycho meter is flickerin like crazy on this one. It's either that or she has read some strategy book on "how to drive a man wild for you" or something and is following the instructions on it. Either way I think you should head for the hills. |
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| Author: | Rainer [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 8:44 am ] |
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Well she seems emotionally unstable and you don't want that. Don't even try fixing the person. Find someone who has their shit together. Basically move on, there are plenty of other people out there. |
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| Author: | newbie2thagame [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 1:12 am ] |
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sounds like that she could have been seriously wounded; ie sexually harassed/molested in her past. its more common than you think and it really hurts girls where they can withdraw from intamacy. you should have a serious 'open discussion' and try and let her know that you are open to listening and wont judge her or anything like that. good luck. |
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| Author: | Buz [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 1:41 am ] |
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or it could be premature LMR, and all she wants is for you to say you'll still be there afterwards. but i am also on side with the other guys as well. so proceed with caution. |
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| Author: | Herne [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 2:09 am ] |
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Personally id start sprinting away from this one--been in similar situs---never goes good---just gets worse and more weird the more time you waste on it buts thats just me---good luck what ever you choose to do |
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